The Sex Dictionary

AC/DC:

Someone who enjoys both heterosexual and homosexual activities

ADULT

1. Euphemism for pornographic.

2. Contains pictures, information, or ideas not intended for persons under the age of (usually) 18.

ADULT LIFESTYLE

A term used by a couple who have an open relationship or marriage and who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners. They may also allow each other to meet and play sexually with someone else. They fall under the description of the word “Swinger” but, they do not like being called that for one reason or another.  They may consider a swinger as someone from the 60’s/70’s doing key parties and their image of women in bee hive hair does and men in Nuru suits. The term “Adult Lifestyle” is modern to them.

In the same sense of the term “swinger couples” where they normally hook up with other couples, a person in the Adult Lifestyle find it hard to find a perfect couple match for them. It is like the Goldilocks theory where the girl of the couple is perfect but, the man isn’t to their liking or vise versa so the adult lifestyle couple decides to end the frustration of finding the perfect couple by just finding a perfect man or woman for them. This is why they do not feel they fit the label of “swinger”

Adult Lifestyle can also fall under the description of a person or couple who enjoy being an adult free from restraints of the normal person also called Vanilla where they are held back by religious beliefs or up tight people.  Someone in the adult lifestyle may be into being naked in public, having sex in public, going to events where other adults flash their body parts or conduct in other erotic acts where others feel the same way.

Someone in the Adult Lifestyle may not even participate in swinger parties but, just live their lives free sexually.(see open relationship /open marriage / swinger)

ADULT PLAY

Euphemism for sex play or swinging.

ANAL

Anal intercourse; The sexual act of a male inserting his penis into another person’s ass. An object can also be used in place of the penis so females can also perform anal sex (See Greek Sex)

ANALINGUS

Analingus (from the Latin anus + -lingus, "to lick", variantly spelled "analingus’ is the oral and anal sex act in which a person stimulates the anus of another by using the mouth, including lips, tongue, or teeth. It is also called anal–oral contact and anal–oral sex; colloquial names include rimming and rim job. It may be performed by and on persons of any sexual orientation for pleasure or as a form of erotic humiliation.

Pleasure for the giver during analingus is usually based more on the principle of the act. The anus has a relatively high concentration of nerve endings and can be an erogenous zone, and the receiver may receive pleasure from external anal stimulation. The person receiving analingus is regarded as the passive partner in the act, and the person performing analingus is the active partner. People may engage in analingus for its own sake, before anal fingering or penetration, or as part of foreplay. Studies indicate that analingus is a rare sexual practice between women.

How to use it in a sentence: The other day, when Jane was licking my penis, she decided to do a little rimming and man, did it ever feel amazing.

Technique:

Analingus can involve a variety of techniques to stimulate the anus, including kissing or licking; it may also involve the tongue moving around the edge of the anus or up and down the insides of the cheeks of the buttocks, and in and out of the anus.

Analingus can be performed in a number of sex positions including:

    The passive partner is on all fours in the doggy position with the active partner performing analingus from behind. The passive partner is on their back in the missionary position with their legs raised high with the knees drawn towards their chest, and with some sort of support (such as a pillow) under their hips for comfort and to raise their buttocks. With the partner's anus exposed, the active partner kneels between the partner's legs to perform analingus.

    The passive partner on top in the 69 position. The passive partner may lie down on the active partner in the missionary position, with legs raised high, from the front to raise the partner's buttocks to perform analingus on the exposed anus.

    Often used in combination with the 69 position detailed above, another position has the active partner lying on their back with the passive partner sitting on their face. This position allows the "passive" partner to become more active or even completely dominant as they can now easily gyrate their hips and thrust their pelvis.

    The rusty trombone, in which a male stands while the active partner performs both analingus from behind, generally from a kneeling position, and also performs masturbation on the standing partner, thus somewhat resembling someone playing the trombone.

ASIAN FETISH

Asian fetish (also known as yellow fever) is an interest, obsession, or preference for Asian people, culture, or things of Asian origin by those of non-Asian descent. It is a slang term that stems from sexual fetishism. Most commonly the term refers to a sexual obsession with Asian women experienced by some non-Asian men. More broadly, it applies to the enthusiasms experienced by some non-Asian people for such things as  Asian cinema, tattoos made up of Chinese characters.

A fetish is something that is desired so heavily that it becomes an abnormal obsession. Objects, body parts, clothing and people are all things that can be fetishized.

An Asian fetish is distinct from an interracial partnership. Interracial relationships may occur for reasons distinct from race. Asian fetishes have been criticized for treating the fetishized person as an object rather than an equal partner. The term Asiaphile is sometimes used to describe the same phenomenon, as is "yellow fever" for East Asians (not to be confused with the disease yellow fever).

BAREBACK SEX

Bareback sex is physical sexual activity, especially sexual penetration, without the use of a condom. It most commonly refers to anal sex between men who have sex with men without the use of a condom, and may be distinguished from unprotected sex because of the deliberate act of forgoing condom use that is associated with it.

It is also associated with the thrill sex of a male possibly impregnating a woman who the male is not married to.  Often it is tied to a black male having unprotected sex with a white married female which is called “Breeding.” It is commonly used in adult movies showing the ejaculation inside a woman causing a “Creampie” to show the result of having “Bareback Sex.”

A slang term, bareback sex comes from the equestrian term bareback, which refers to the practice of riding a horse without a saddle. It therefore has the connotation of being wild, dangerous, and fun.

It is not known when the term (as sexual slang) was first used, although its use did gain momentum in the 1960s with the first appearance in print (as analogous reference) occurring in 1968.The term was used by G.I.'s during the Vietnam War when sex without the use of a condom was known as "going in" or "riding" bareback. The term was included in the 1972 publication, Playboy's Book of Forbidden Words: A Liberated Dictionary of Improper English.

BASEBALL SEX

Among the most commonly used metaphors are the bases describing levels of physical intimacy (generally from a heterosexual perspective). Definitions vary, but the following are typical usages of the terms:

    First base – mouth-to-mouth kissing, especially French kissing;

    Second base – skin-to-skin touching/kissing of the breasts; in some contexts, it may instead refer to touching any erogenous zones through the clothes (i.e., not actually touching the skin), or manual stimulation of the genitals;

    Third base – touching below the waist (without sexual intercourse); in some contexts, it may instead refer to oral stimulation of the genitals;

    Home run (home base or scoring) – "full" sexual intercourse.

Additionally,

    Strikeout – a failure to engage in any form of foreplay or other sexual activity;

Additionally, there are two metaphors used to refer to men who have sex with men:

    Pitching – the man performing anal sex

    Catching – the man receiving anal sex

Other similar metaphors include:

    Switch hitter – a bisexual individual, referencing a player who can bat from either side

    Playing for the other team – usually indicating a person is gay or lesbian

    Playing for both teams – usually indicating a person is bisexual

BBC

Big Beautiful Cock - a large, attractive penis; 9+ inches in length with a sizable girth. Also refers to Big Black Cock

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman, a woman who is usually weighing over 200 lbs.

BEAST WITH TWO BACKS

Beast with two backs

Making the beast with two backs is a euphemistic metaphor for two persons engaged in sexual intercourse. It refers to the situation in which a couple—in the missionary position, woman on top, on their sides, kneeling, or standing—cling to each other as if a single creature, with their backs to the outside.

In English, the expression dates back to at least William Shakespeare's Othello (Act 1, Scene 1, ll. 126-127):

“ I am one, sir, that comes to tell you your daughter and the Moor are now making the beast with two backs.”

B&D

Bondage and Discipline. This term covers a vast list of sexual acts evolving around master/slave. The sexual act of binding a persons appendages in a sexual atmosphere. Also involving discipline and master / slave sexual.

Physical contact is not necessary, and D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems. In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes crossing into sadomasochism. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants—Doms (male) or Dommes (female)—while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives—or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. A dominatrix is usually a female sex worker who dominates others for pay.

It is common for writers to capitalize the "D" in Dominant but leave the "s" in lowercase for the submissive. Many extend this to His/Hers, Him/Her, He/She, etc., to make it clear when they are referring to a Dominant.

Discipline in BDSM refers to the practice where the dominant sets rules for the submissive that he/she is expected to obey. When rules of expected behavior are broken, punishment is often used as a means of disciplining.

In BDSM, Master/slave or M/s is a relationship in which one individual serves another in an authority-exchange structured relationship. Unlike Dominant/submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, service and obedience are often the core values in Master/slave structures. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship uses the term "slave" because of the association of the term with ownership rights of a master to their slave's body, as property or chattel. While male "masters" will usually be referred to as "Master", whether or not female Masters are referred to as "Master" or "Mistress" may depend upon whether they identify as following the "Leather" or BDSM path.   (see Dominant and Submissive)

BEAR CLAW

If you've had the pleasure of experiencing many women in your life, then you know that each woman has a unique vagina. Well, a "bear claw" refers to a woman's unusually large labia (vaginal lips).

How to use it in a sentence: Dude, I had sex with Julie for the first time last night and I noticed that she had a bear claw going on. But it was all good.

BEEF CURTAIN

The shanked out remains of the labia after being stretched like Play-Doh from an hour or so of jimmy-jam.

BEASTIALITY

A person who has sexual acts with animals. Usually where a woman has sex with a dog, horse or donkey. The sex can consist of intercourse or oral sex. In some cases the woman either enjoys mating with her dog or is paid to have sex for entertainment.

One sexual term is called The Canine Special where a person liberally apply peanut butter to your dick and call over the family dog. Lick Ubu lick. Good Dog. Arf!

BEER DICK

This is what most guys get after a good night of drinking. They tend to fuck anything with a pussy while experiencing beer dick.

BISEXUAL

BI or Bisexual:

Versatile. Enjoys having sex with both sexes

Bi Curious:

Interested in or curious about bisexuality but inexperienced.

BIZARRE

Unusual sexual desires; Can also be considered Kinky, Un-natural sexual interest, not main stream sexual acts.

BLOOD HOUNDS

Bloodhounds are men who either don’t mind having sex with a woman while she is on her period, or they’re actually into it.

BLOW JOB

When a female has oral sex with a males penis. A gay or bisexual male can also perform fellatio on another males penis. (see Head / Oral Sex)

BLUE BALLS

Blue balls is a slang term for the condition of temporary fluid congestion in a males testicals. (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916. Some urologists call this condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced by all males.

BODY WORSHIP

Body worship is any practice of physically revering a part of another person's body, and is usually done as a submissive act in the context of BDSM. Typical kinds of body worship include worship of muscles, the penis, the vagina, breast or the buttocks.

Usually accompanied by prostration, re-enforcing a sense of inferiority, a "sub" generally licks, kisses and sucks their dominant's body part, and is not allowed to touch it in a more conventional way. This brings aspect of erotic humiliation to submissive partner.

Worshipping a body can also be done because the worshipper is in awe of the body part and wishes to praise that beauty. Although encouragement may be provided, verbally or by spanking, body worship is typically received more or less passively, the worshipped party aloof. Facesitting and smothering are forms of body worship which differ chiefly because of their aggressive approach.(see facesitting)

BONDAGE

A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."

BREEDING

Sex where a male ejaculates inside a woman for the purpose of getting them pregnant often where the woman is married to another man. In most cases the male is black and the female is white. In these case the husband watches while the black male impregnates his wife or the wife goes home to tell the husband she had just been impregnated by a black man. The sex can be rough style sex depending on what either party request or is into to get them off.

 “She was on all fours for her breeding session last night, I’m hoping for triplets.”

“I met this guy at a bar and after a few drinks I took him out back and bred him.” “I was just bred by 2 black men and my husband is going to be surprised when I give birth.”

BROWN BAGGING IT

Sometimes you meet a girl or guy with a body like there's no tomorrow but a face like a mangy dog. In this case Brown Bagging It is a term where you grab a paper bag and draw a smiley face on it and then place it over the persons face. Don't let that body go to waste and let their hideousness stop you from fucking them. (see Butterface)

BUKKAKE

Bukkake (Japanese: ぶヤっチかゥけッ, (English: /bʊkɑːkeɪ/ or /-k￿/, buu-KA(H)-kay) is a sex act portrayed in pornographic films, in which several men ejaculate on a woman usually in the face receiving a facial. Bukkake videos are a relatively prevalent niche in contemporary pornographic films. Originating in Japan in the 1980s, the genre subsequently spread to North America and Europe.

Bukkake was first represented in pornographic films in the mid to late 1980s in Japan. According to one commentator, a significant factor in the development of bukkake as a pornographic form was the mandatory censorship in Japan where genitals must be pixelated by a "mosaic". One consequence of this is that Japanese pornography tends to focus more on the face and body of actresses rather than on their genitals. Since film producers could not show penetration, they sought other ways to depict sex acts without violating Japanese law and since semen did not need to be censored, a loophole existed for harder sex scenes.

The appearance of bukkake videos was part of a trend towards "harder" pornography in the 1990s, preceded by a fashion for double penetration videos in the mid-1990s, and occurring in parallel to the appearance of gang bang videos towards the end of that decade. There was an economic advantage for Western pornographers to produce bukkake films since they only require one actress, and often amateur male performers whose pay-rates are low.

However, Western-style bukkake videos differ in some aspects from those in Japan; in Japanese bukkake videos, female performers are frequently dressed as office ladies or in school uniforms, and they are being humiliated, whereas women in Western-style bukkake videos are portrayed as enjoying the scene.

Another Japanese variant of bukkake is gokkun, in which several men ejaculate into a container for the receiver to drink. This is now becoming a main part of the Western-style movies using different styles of containers.

The Snowball Bukkake: is where two women are either kneeling in the center surrounded by several men who are ejaculating on them or all of the men are having intercourse or receiving oral sex from the girls and at the point of climax the men cum on the girls faces. The girls then share all of the cum from mouth to mouth as a “Snowball.”

Cum Play Bukkake: In some cases where more than one woman participates in which they receive facials of cum and the women lick the cum off of each others faces.

Dream Shower Bukkake: This is where the group of men have sex with the target. As one man is having sex the other men watch and cum on the girls face. When the man comes to his climax he cums on her face and the next man in line has sex with her. This one can last a while depending on how many men the target is willing to have sex with. All of the men have intercourse and then at moment of climax they pull out and cum on the girls face which takes more time than the standard circle jerk of men cumming on the woman.

Costume Play Bukkake: Here is where a party or video is made in a theme setting such as a girl wearing a schoolgirl uniform in a schoolroom. She would sit and suck off each guy in a line waiting. The men repeatedly cum in her mouth or face.

Bukkake Summit: Here is where a woman receives a Bukkake shower but tilts her head back and opens her mouth for the full experience, trying to catch it all. At the end of all the facials the cum is collected in a glass or platter and drank by the woman of the Bukkake shower.

Forced Bukkake: This is where a willing girl acts or seems unwilling to get a facial shower from several men.

Popularization of the act and the term has now become a huge draw for men and women in the Western countries to watch and in some cases immolate at sex parties or gang bangs. (see Snowball/Creampies)

BUTTERFACE

When you see a girl with an awesome body, "but her face", is nasty. (see Brown Bagging It)

CAMEL TOE

Camel toe, or cameltoe, is a slang term that refers to the outline of a woman's labia majora in tightly fitting clothes. Owing to a combination of anatomical factors and the tightness of the fabric covering the area, the crotch and mons pubis may display a shape resembling the forefoot of a camel. Camel toe commonly occurs as a result of wearing tight-fitting clothes, such as shorts, yoga pants, hot-pants or swimwear.

CAN ENTERTAIN

Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.

CAN TRAVEL

When a swinger is willing to travel to a place for a swingers party.

CHANGE-DOWN/DRESS DOWN

Term used to denote changing out of street or dance clothing and into lingerie, robes, or even nudity, as may be appropriate for the event.

COCK BLOCK

Cockblock is a slang term for an action, intentional or not, that serves to prevent someone from having sex. Such behavior is often motivated by jealousy or competitiveness, although it is sometimes accidental or inadvertent. A cockblock or cockblocker is a person who engages in such obstruction or intervention.

“Last night I almost hooked up with a guy that is until Nancy cockblocked me.” “I had that girl until you cockblocked me.”

Social research has documented norms among male peer groups that view "cockblock" behavior as negative, which may make men less likely to challenge each other's behavior or impede sexual access to women. The term appears to date at least to 1972, when Edith Folb documented its use by urban black teenagers.

COCK TEASE

Cock tease (sometimes cock-tease or cocktease or also prick-tease) is derisive sexual slang used to describe a person who acts in a sexual manner to seduce men without actually fulfilling the sexual actions. The term has been in use in Great Britain and the United States since the 19th century. In Latin the term might be mentula vexos or mentula crucio.

“Linda is so hot but, what a cock-tease. She is all show and no action.”

CORN

Originating from the fine campus of Cornell University comes this unique, rarely used term. Saying that a girl is "Corn" means, she is so fucking hot, so beautiful, so utterly drop-dead gorgeous, that you would happily eat the corn out of her shit. Can be used as a great pick-up line or friendly compliment, for instance; "Baby, you're more Corn than Green Giant", or "Damn bitch, you are Corn!"

CORN HOLE

Cornhole (sometimes corn hole) is a sexual slang vulgarism for anus. The term came into use in the 1910s in the United States. Its verb form to cornhole, which came into usage in the 1930s, means to have anal sex.

The term is apparently derived "from the practice in the days of the outhouse of using dried corn cobs for toilet paper."

By the middle of the 20th century, the term was used among American criminals. According to a 1944 report on same-sex prison rape, the term had taken on a more specific meaning of taking the penetrative role in anal sex.

In a similar context, a corn husk is a "condom", especially one manufactured for anal intercourse."

CHEATING

Sexual activity with others without spouse's or steady boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s knowledge and consent. Unlike in a Swingers dynamic of their open relationship where hooking up with another person is acceptable. In some cases of Swingers, they may or may not have an agreement that the other person can be with someone else as long as they are told about it. If that agreement is that they must tell the other and they don’t then that can be considered “cheating.”

CHODE

I’ll keep this definition as short as the word itself: Chodes are short, fat dicks.

CIRCLE JERK

A group of males masturbating ("jerking off") together with or without interpersonal contact. Any group or group activity indulging in mutual gratification.

CLEAN

1. Hygienic

2. Free of sexually transmitted diseases

CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING

Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. The rooms are almost always in the same house.

CLOSET SWINGER

A person who hides that he/she is a swinger.

COUGAR

A woman in her sexual prime who prefers to hunt rather than be hunted. A cougar's victims are usually under 25, as cougars prefer to mate with men who still have hair. Cougars generally feed and then continue hunting, as they enjoy role reversal.

An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together.

An attractive woman in her 30's or 40's who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc. She will not play the usual B.S. games that women in their early twenties participate in. End state, she will be going for the kill, just like you.

Cougars are non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down. It is not uncommon for the same Cougar to attack (sleep with) many different men in the same group of friends unlike M.I.L.F’s. Furthermore, Cougars are older and more practiced in the ways of snaring a mate so they will rarely broadcast their intentions to sleep with you until you are already in her car (usually a convertible sports car)  headed for the condo she just bought. It is this elusive behavior that earns her the name “Cougar.”

Coo-gher. An older woman who's primary interest lies in bedding younger men. Often, but not necessarily, with money; cougars are the more aggressive variety of the commonly used term : M.I.L.F. Unlike the M.I.L.F. the Cougar has never had children.

One classy lassy, with big hair, pink lipstick. Leopard print spandex wearing tight sweaters, short dresses, exposed mid-riff, exposed thong/g-string, pierced belly-button and possibly nipple(s), tattoo - either around belly-button or design on lower back,

Short skirt or jeans, tight t-shirt with no bra on underneath. the whole nine yards.

The origin of the word cougar as a slang term is debated, but it is thought to have originated in Western Canada and first appeared in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate.com. It has also been stated to have "originated in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whomever was left at the end of the night".

The term has been variously applied to women who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference.

In plain English: Any prime and mature woman seeking or prowling for younger men but, has never had children.

The term Cougar was coined to any woman seeking a younger man. Like the animal of the same name, they constantly hunt for fresh meat they can sink their teeth into. Cougars tend to seek energetic guys that are mostly vulnerable.

One prime example of a cougar is “Kelly LeBrock” from the 80’s Weird Science (during that era).

“Jane is a total cougar and on the prowl.”

A Cougar is not a “M.I.L.F”.  A Cougar does not have children unlike a M.I.L.F. (See M.I.L.F.)

CPL

Couple

COUPLE

In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together, committed, in an on going relationship or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.

CORN

Originating from the fine campus of Cornell University comes this unique, rarely used term. Saying that a girl is "Corn" means, she is so fucking hot, so beautiful, so utterly drop-dead gorgeous, that you would happily eat the corn out of her shit. Can be used as a great pick-up line or friendly compliment, for instance; "Baby, you're more Corn than Green Giant", or "Damn bitch, you are Corn!"

CUNNILINGUS

Male performing oral sexual activity upon a females vagina. A lesbian or bisexual female can also perform oral sex on a woman’s vagina.

CREAMPIE

Ejaculating into a woman’s vagina.

Internal cum shot; Act of ejaculating inside a pussy or asshole. Also the moment after the internal ejaculation, when the man’s cum drips out.

"... and then I ejaculated inside her and pulled out my dick, watching the beautiful creampie."

Creampie (also known as internal ejaculation and, in same-sex contexts, as “breeding and seeding”) is a sexual act, commonly featured in pornography, in which a male ejaculates inside his partner's vagina or anus without use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the vagina or anus.

Internal ejaculation shots are a comparatively recent development in pornography; they are not found in early pornographic films. The use of the word creampie to describe such scenes originated in U.S. pornography in the early 2000s.

Internal ejaculations, followed by images of semen dripping from the anus, are sometimes depicted in bareback pornography, where they are referred to by the term breeding or the reverse money shot. Breeding is sometimes followed by felching, which involves sucking the semen from the partner's anus.

In straight pornography, sexual activity is often followed by a facial, pearl necklace or other visible ejaculation. Creampie scenes depart from heterosexual pornographic convention in favor of a depiction that more closely mimics sexual activity as performed in ordinary life; they have been called the "counterimage" of facials. Perhaps following the example set by pornography, they have become a popular subgenre within heterosexual pornography since the turn of the century, featuring both vaginal and anal ejaculations. In some creampie films, both gay and straight, sexual activity, including internal ejaculation, are followed by performers licking up the semen that has dripped from their bodies. Some pornographic films use an artificial semen substitute to simulate or enhance creampie shots.

Examples of heterosexual pornographic film series featuring creampies include Cream Filled Teens, Internal Cumbustion and Breed Me (1999) having been noted as one of the "earliest and most notorious" in the genre.

The act of a man cock cumming inside a woman’s pussy, leaving his semen oozing out of her.

A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it.

Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE.

A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected!

1. Often referred to as "traditional Sex" (or straight/anal sex in the adult industry) whereby the man shoots his seed inside of the pussy. The actual creampie or "proof" is the point when the man pulls out and the semen can be seen leaking out.

2. A less popular form of adult entertainment that relies more on the pill than on the rubber which is directed to the fantasy of a man or woman having unprotected sex with the possibility of impregnating the woman.

3. A shot inside of the Anus is still referred to as a creampie but, should more commonly be called an Anal creampie. (whereby which a man jacks his load into the asshole of a man or woman.

CREAMPIE FIGHT

Where a woman takes a load of cum from another woman’s pussy and then passes it to her mouth or the mouth of another woman. This cum is then passed back and forth like a “Snowball”(see snowball / soft serve)

CREAMPIE PARTIES

Refer to Creampie but, in which a woman has several men cum inside her. Also known as “Breeding Parties” where the goal is for the woman to become impregnated by an unknown male donor.

CUCKHOLD

A cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife.  Normally shown as a week, meek man who is forced to watch his hot wife have sex with strangers. Sometimes they are tied up while watching or forced to touch the other man while he is having sex with his wife. In rare cases that cuckhold male is forced to eat the cum of the other man from his wife’s cum filled (“creampied”) pussy. In some cases they are forced to suck or lick the cum from both the man and his wife off the man’s cock after the man cums inside his wife and he pulls out.

Cuckhold is not to be confused with male swingers who have an agreement to allow their wives to have sex with other men. The key word is “allow and agreement.”

CUM DUMPSTER

A girl who absolutely is a 100% cum lover and loves to have cum all over her.  She would bathe in cum if she could. This girl asks if you will be so kind as to set up a gang bang or bukkake for her birthday.

CUM SHOT

A cum shot is the depiction of human ejaculation (sperm), especially onto another person. The term cum shot is usually applied to depictions occurring in pornographic films, photographs, and magazines. These are also referred to as the “Pop Shot” “Cum Blast” or “Money Shot.”

Cum shots have become the object of fetish genres like bukkake. Facial cum shots (or "facials") are currently regularly portrayed in pornographic films and videos, often as a way to close a scene. Cum shots may also depict ejaculation onto another performer's body, such as on the genitals, buttocks, chest or tongue and in some cases of fetish, feet.

Cum shot is not to be confused with a “creampie” which is an internal climax where cum is ejaculated into a pussy or asshole.

CUM PLAY

An act where men cum on the girls food and then she proceeds to eat the food with the sperm glazing on display.

Cum Play Bukkake: is where many men cum on the girls face, after which she plays with the cum. She may make strands out of the cum from her body to see how long she can create a thread of cum.

Cum Play is also a term used when 2 or more women are ejaculated on by several men and then the women play with the cum by either passing the cum back and forth to each other by mouth also referred to as a “Snowball.”  They may also be creative and finger paint with the cum that covers their bodies.(See Snowball)

CYBERSEX

The use of the Internet to have sexual experiences, for example by having a sexual conversation with someone.

DAISY CHAIN

Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.(see Gang Bang/Orgy)

D/D FREE

No Drugs or Diseases

DILDO

An artificial penis, usually made of rubber, plastic, metal or ceramic glass, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.

Not to be confused with a vibrator which moves in some way by battery or electrical power.

DISCIPLINE

A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. This can also include one partner obeying the commands of the other in private and public settings. (refer to dominant and submissive)

DISCRETION

Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. This includes the workplace.

DOCILE

Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).

DOGGING

Dogging is a British English slang term for engaging in sexual acts in a public or semi-public place or watching others doing so. There may be one person putting on a show or more than two participants; both group sex and gang banging can be included. As observation is encouraged, voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging as well as participation by the voyeurs if the persons performing the sexual act agree to their joining in. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet up beforehand over the Internet in a public place. These places can range from a parking lot, a park, a movie theater, a beach, etc.

In September 2003 BBC News reported on the "new" dogging craze. They cited the Internet and text messaging as common ways of organizing meetings. The original definition of dogging and which is still a closely related activity is spying on couples having sex in a car or other public place.

There is some evidence on the Internet that the "craze" has begun to spread to other countries, such as Canada, Australia, Barbados, Brazil, Denmark, the Netherlands, Norway, Poland, and Sweden.  While the “Dogging” term is more used in England, the United States has also used the phrase “Public Party” or a “Fans Meet n Greet.” Where a woman who has an adult web site puts out a message to her fans to “Meet” her so she can show her “Appreciation” for them being a fan. By doing so it doesn’t scream to the authorities that a meeting for sex is being arraigned.  These fans meetings can consist of the woman posing in sexual situations wearing sexy lingerie, dresses, and even clothes paid and given to her by her fans. She may also perform a sexual act from a hand job to a gang bang.

The Sunday Herald of Scotland wrote in 2003, "The term dogging originated in the early 1970s to describe men who spied on couples having sex outdoors these men would 'dog' the couples' every move and watch them." An alternative etymology posits dog-walking as the origin of the term; audience members, and indeed participants, could use the ordinary exercise of their pets as cover for their sexual assignations. (Refer to exhibitionist, swinging, public parties, fans greet and meet)

DOMINANT AND SUBMISSIVE

Those who take the superior position in dominance and submission scenes and relationships are called dominants, doms (male) or dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissive or subs (male or female). A top filling the dominant role is not necessarily a dominant, and vice versa, and a bottom is not necessarily submissive.

The main difference between a dominant and a top is that the dominant ostensibly does not follow instructions, although they are limited by what the submissive is willing to do. The top may sometimes even be the partner who is following instructions, i.e., they top when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom. Contrast this with the pure dominant, who might give orders to a submissive, or otherwise employ physical or psychological techniques of control, but might instruct the submissive to perform the act on them.

The main difference between a submissive and a bottom is that the submissive ostensibly does not give instructions, although they do set limits on what the dominant can do. A bottom is not necessarily a submissive; they may enjoy intense physical and psychological stimulation but not submit to the person delivering it. Similarly, a submissive might not be a bottom; they may enjoy taking orders from a dominant without receiving any physical stimulation. For bottoms who are not submissive, the bottom is most often the partner who is giving instructions the top typically tops when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom.

Many distinguish top/bottom from dominant/submissive by seeing top/bottom as an expression of physical power, while dominant/submissive is an expression of psychological power. In many cases, the dominant/submissive relationship involves the dominant party psychologically tearing down and denigrating the submissive (consensually, meeting the submissive's expressed needs and respecting hard limits). In contrast, the top/bottom relationship is more commonly marked by mutual respect and support.The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner

DOMINATRIX

A dominatrix (/dɒmɪˈneɪtrɪks/), plural dominatrixes or dominatrices (/dɒmɪnəˈtraɪsiːs/), is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A dominatrix might be of any sexual orientation, but her orientation does not necessarily limit the genders of her submissive partners. The role of a dominatrix may not even involve physical pain toward the submissive; her domination can be verbal, involving humiliating tasks, or servitude. A dominatrix is typically a paid professional ("pro-domme") as the term "dominatrix" is little-used within the non-professional BDSM scene.

The term domme is a coined pseudo-French female variation of the slang dom (short for dominant). The use of "domme", "dominatrix", "dom", or "dominant" by any woman in a dominant role is chosen mostly by personal preference and the conventions of the local BDSM scene. The term "mistress" or "dominant mistress" is sometimes also used. "Female dominance", "female domination" or "femdom" refer to BDSM relationships and BDSM scenes in which the dominant partner is female.

As fetish culture is increasingly becoming more prevalent in Western media, depictions of dominatrices in film and television have become more common.

DP or DOUBLE PENETRATION

Two men have sex at the same time with a woman. Vaginal and Anal sex at the same time. Gay men or bisexual men can also be double penetrated.

DRESSING DOWN

Getting naked or into your "party clothes" (see Party Clothes, Play Clothes,).

DVDA

The abbreviation for "double-anal, double-vaginal". This is the term used when a girl takes four cocks in two holes. A hard core porn industry norm.(see Gang Bang)

ENTERTAIN

(see Can Entertain)

EROTIC ASPHYXIATION

Erotic asphyxiation or breath control play is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal.

This sexual practice is variously called asphyxiophilia, autoerotic asphyxia, hypoxyphilia. The term autoerotic asphyxiation is used when the act is done by a person to themselves. Colloquially, a person engaging in the activity is sometimes called a gasper.

This act if done incorrectly will lead to death which many a famous person has found out.

EROTIC ELECTROSTIULATION

Erotic electrostimulation (abbreviated e-stim and also known as electrosex) is a sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation. Electrostimulation has been associated with BDSM activities, and erotic electrostimulation is an evolution of that practice.

ESKIMO SISTERS

Eskimo sisters are two women who’ve had sex with the same person, AKA the #1 reason for failed friendships. It’s a complicated, yet sacred relationship in any small social circle, but if you manage to navigate the awkwardness at first, it’s no biggie. Prominent eskimo sisters in pop culture include Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie (and possibly Marion Cotillard), Kristen Doute and Ariana Madix, and all the girls who make it to the fantasy suite on the same season of The Bachelor.

EXHIBITIONISM

(see Exhibitionist)

EXHIBITIONIST

A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts. Women tend to be more exhibitionist then men mostly due to their having more pleasurable things to show or by showing their just as strong or daring as a man. The exhibitionist may chose a location where they know they will be seen by someone. They will sometimes chose who they want to expose themselves to.

This may include a woman just giving a quick flash of their breast as a dare or to get a shock response. A woman may act as if it was not intended by just bending over showing cleavage, bending down and exposing their g string strap above their pants, or stepping out of a car exposing themselves in view of a man (women know or should know that men are animals and are waiting for moments just like this. Men just love this kind of excitement.  It is a huge reason why they go out to clubs, parties and crazy public events where women will be.  “Girls Going Wild.”  And if they get to see some skin then all the better.

Exhibitionist are commonly seen at nudist camps where others are naked as well but, being their alone may not fulfill the need for a thrill.  That rush received by flashing may become a like a drug where more and more of a need to flash in public leads to more risk being taken. Flashing a thong line when a woman bends over in a store or exposing cleavage may be enough for some women to fulfill that thrill. While others need to get an even higher thrill.

Common places for an exhibitionist to enjoy exposing themselves are: public pools by removing their tops tie, nude beaches, rivers, lakes, boats, secluded places not commonly traveled but, the chance of being seen is a plus, cruise ships, adult venues such as car races and other public sport events, biker rallies, places where nudity is allowed for a short time such as New Orleans (any time of the year, not just during celebrations), hotel room windows, even leaving hotel or cruise ship room doors slightly open for anyone walking by to look in, driving a car and flashing other drivers most notably truck drivers and of course their own homes.

While most exhibitionist go to a public location to expose themselves, some exhibitionist get creative and set up situations where they know they can exhibit themselves in some way. As an example: undressing in a window in view of a male or female neighbor or laying out by the pool naked or topless in view of whom ever may see them, usually the pool boy or gardener, a female out in public purposely crossing and uncrossing her legs in a short dress to expose her pussy or underwear, using a dressing room and leaving the door or curtain slightly open, and the classic of a woman who answers the door in a towel knowing the cable guy or pizza guy is coming over and making sure she drops the towel for them to see her naked.

An Exhibitionist may even join adult lifestyle or swinger events just to be able to get naked. They may not play but, only be there for eye candy to look at.  This is tolerated by the swinging community because it brings in more swingers who prefer to see sexy people instead of old wrinkled people who make up most of the lifestyle.

Another venue for exhibitionism is the internet either by having their own adult web site, or an adult social media like Red Tube, Porn Hub, You Porn, Porn Tube etc. where they post their own videos and photos. They also find a way to fulfill their thrill by sexting people they just met.  An Exhibitionist will always find fun and exciting new ways to expose themselves to feed that need for a thrill.

A true exhibitionist often choses to work at strip clubs which is the ultimate stage for their desire to be naked in front of strangers in public and it won’t result in their being arrested. Then that does take away some of the thrill.

Wiki’s definition of Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally exposed  for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander. Exposing oneself only to an intimate partner is normally not regarded as exhibitionism. In law, the act of exhibitionism may be called indecent exposure, "exposing one's person", or other expressions.

Flashing: the momentary display of bare female breasts by a woman with an up-and-down lifting of the shirt or bra or the exposure of a man's or woman's genitalia.

Mooning is the act of displaying one's bare buttocks by removing clothing, e.g., by lowering the backside of one's trousers and underpants, usually bending over, whether also exposing the genitals or not. Mooning is used in the English-speaking world to express protest, scorn, disrespect, or provocation, or can be done for shock value, fun, or as form of exhibitionism. Some jurisdictions regard mooning to be indecent exposure, sometimes depending on the context. Moon has been a common shape metaphor for the buttocks in English since 1743, and the verb to moon has meant "to expose to (moon)light" since 1601. As documented by McLaren, "'mooning', or exposing one's butt to shame an enemy ... had a long pedigree in peasant culture" throughout the Middle Ages, and in many nations. Formerly, "mooning" was slang for "wandering idly" and "romantically pining".

Streaking: the act of running naked through a public place. The intent is not usually sexual but for shock value.(see Voyeur)

FACESITTING

Facesitting, also known as queening or kinging, is a sexual practice in which one partner sits on or over the other's face, typically to allow or force oral–genital or oral–anal contact. In addition to oral-genital and oral-anal contact, the position also leaves the bottom partner's hands free to stimulate other erogenous zones (e.g., anus, nipples, etc.). The top partner may be facing either direction in this position. It is common for this position to form part of BDSM, involving dominance and submission, though this need not be the case. Within a BDSM or D/s context, facesitting can be a form of erotic humiliation.

Facesitting is common among dominant and submissive individuals, for demonstrating superiority and for sexual gratification. Unlike smothering, in facesitting the bottom partner is not deprived of air. The full-weight body-pressure, moisture, body odors, and darkness can be perceived as powerful sexual attractions or compulsions. The person sat upon may be in bondage, sexually submissive, or simply held down by the body-weight

if the other person. In some cases, the submissive will consume the dominant's bodily waste(s) (urolagnia and coprophilia).

FURNITURE FACE SITTING

Face sitting using a Queening Stool.

Sometimes special furniture is used, such as a "queening stool" or "smotherbox". A queening stool is a low seat which fits over the submissive's face and contains an opening to allow oral-genital and/or oral-anal stimulation of the domme while seated.

The position allows the pelvic floor muscles (PFM) to relax and therefore partly exposing the labia minora to intimate touch. The gluteus maximus and levator ani muscles, the major muscles of the crotch, can relax and sag allowing easy access to the vagina and anus. Additionally, the stool allows for greater comfort and allows for the activity to be done for a longer period of time.

The smotherbox is placed on a stable surface. The cover (top half of the smotherbox) is open while the submissive lies down on his or her back and places his or her head in the box. When he or she is in position the cover is closed. The cover can have hinges or be a separate part. Locks may be used to emphasize the submissive position or the submissive's hands may be fastened above his or her head to the box. Smotherboxes may be more permanently mounted to tables or other stable objects, and the submissive restrained to that surface instead. A Queening Chair or Facesitting Throne is another variation that is popular, designed to emphasize the relative place of the domme and submissive. They can be elegant and more formal than the smotherbox.

FACIAL

Ejaculating on the face.

A facial is a sexual activity in which a man ejaculates semen onto the face of one or more sexual partners. A facial is a form of non-penetrative sex, though it is generally performed after some other means of sexual stimulation, such as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex or masturbation. Facials are currently regularly portrayed in pornographic films and videos, often as a way to close a scene.

The performance of a facial is typically preceded by activities that result in the sexual arousal and stimulation of the ejaculating participant. After the prerequisite level of sexual stimulation has been achieved, and ejaculation becomes imminent, the male will position his penis so that the semen discharged will be deposited onto his partner's face.

The volume of semen that is ejaculated depends on several factors, including the male's health, age, degree of sexual excitement, and the time since his last ejaculation. Normal quantities of ejaculate range from 1.5 to 5.0 milliliters (1 teaspoon). Seconds after being deposited onto the face, the semen thickens, before liquefying 15–30 minutes later.(see Bukkake)

FELLATIO

Fellatio/French:

A person usually a woman performing oral sexual activity upon a males penis.

FELTCHING

To use one's mouth or tongue on the anus of his partner; analingus after ejaculating inside the anus and sucking the cum out of the anus. On rare occasions a straw is used.

FETISH

Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non sexual objects, actions, or non genital anatomy. Fetishes can range from a wide variety of things which all depends on the individual.  Some examples are: women’s shoes, stocking feet, the size of the woman, the clothing worn, wearing babies diapers, etc.

FLASHING

(see Exhibtionist)

FLUFFER

A girl who orally gets a man hard so he can perform in an adult movie. She does not get him off.

FOURSOME

Foursome: Sexual activity involving four persons, of any gender combination.

FUN AND GAMES

Euphemism for sexual activity

FRIENDS FIRST SWINGERS

People who prefer to get to know someone before having sex. This may mean socializing at clubs, exchanging email and chatting online, or going out on a few dates (dinner, movies, sports events, etc.same as traditional dating) first.

G-SPOT

The G-spot, also called the Gräfenberg spot (for German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg), is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.

Studies, using ultrasound, have found physiological evidence of the G-spot in women who report having orgasms during vaginal intercourse. It is also hypothesized that the G-spot is an extension of the clitoris and that this is the cause of orgasms experienced vaginally.

Sexologists and other researchers are concerned that women may consider themselves to be dysfunctional if they do not experience G-spot stimulation, and emphasize that this is not abnormal.

Location:

Two primary methods have been used to define and locate the G-spot as a sensitive area in the vagina: self-reported levels of arousal during stimulation, and stimulation of the G-spot leading to female ejaculation. Ultrasound technology has also been used to identify physiological differences between women and changes to the G-spot region during sexual activity.

The location of the G-spot is typically reported as being about 50 to 80 mm (2 to 3 in) inside the vagina, on the front wall. For some women, stimulating this area creates a more intense orgasm than clitoral stimulation. The G-spot area has been described as needing direct stimulation, such as two fingers pressed deeply into it. Attempting to stimulate the area through sexual penetration, especially in the missionary position, is difficult because of the particular angle of penetration required.

Vagina and clitoris:

Women usually need direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, and G-spot stimulation may be best achieved by using both manual stimulation and vaginal penetration. Sex toys are available for G-spot stimulation. One common sex toy is the specially designed G-spot vibrator, which is a phallus-like vibrator that has a curved tip and attempts to make G-spot stimulation easy. G-spot vibrators are made from the same materials as regular vibrators, ranging from hard plastic, rubber, silicone, jelly, or any combination of them. The level of vaginal penetration when using a G-spot vibrator depends on the woman, because women's physiology is not always the same. The effects of G-spot stimulation when using the penis or a G-spot vibrator may be enhanced by additionally stimulating other erogenous zones on a woman's body, such as the clitoris or vulva as a whole. When using a G-spot vibrator, this may be done by manually stimulating the clitoris, including by using the vibrator as a clitoral vibrator, or, if the vibrator is designed for it, by applying it so that it stimulates the head of the clitoris, the rest of the vulva and the vagina simultaneously.

In the same sense of creating a dildo or vibrator with the curved shaft needed to reach the G-Spot, men with curved cocks have become more popular in the thinking that they are able to reach the G-spot location.

A 1981 case study reported that stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall made the area grow by fifty percent and that self-reported levels of arousal/orgasm were "deeper" when the G-spot was stimulated. Another study, in 1983, examined eleven women by palpating the entire vagina in a clockwise fashion, and reported a specific response to stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall in four of the women, concluding that the area is the G-spot. In a 1990 study, an anonymous questionnaire was distributed to 2,350 professional women in the United States and Canada with a subsequent 55% return rate. Of these respondents, 40% reported having a fluid release (ejaculation) at the moment of orgasm, and 82% of the women who reported the sensitive area (Gräfenberg spot) also reported ejaculation with their orgasms. Several variables were associated with this perceived existence of female ejaculation.

Some research suggests that G-spot and clitoral orgasms are of the same origin. Masters and Johnson were the first to determine that the clitoral structures surround and extend along and within the labia. Upon studying women's sexual response cycle to different stimulation, they observed that both clitoral and vaginal orgasms had the same stages of physical response, and found that the majority of their subjects could only achieve clitoral orgasms, while a minority achieved vaginal orgasms. On this basis, Masters and Johnson argued that clitoral stimulation is the source of both kinds of orgasms, reasoning that the clitoris is stimulated during penetration by friction against its hood.

In 2001, the Federative Committee on Anatomical Terminology accepted female prostate as an accurate term for the Skene's gland, which is believed to be found in the G-spot area along the walls of the urethra. The male prostate is biologically homologous to the Skene's gland it has been unofficially called the male G-spot because it can also be used as an erogenous zone.

Regnier de Graaf, in 1672, observed that the secretions (female ejaculation) by the erogenous zone in the vagina lubricate "in agreeable fashion during coitus". Modern scientific hypotheses linking G-spot sensitivity with female ejaculation led to the idea that non-urine female ejaculate may originate from the Skene's gland, with the Skene's gland and male prostate acting similarly in terms of prostate-specific antigen and prostate-specific acid phosphatase studies, which led to a trend of calling the Skene's glands the female prostate. Additionally, the enzyme PDE5 (involved with erectile dysfunction) has additionally been associated with the G-spot area. Because of these factors, it has been argued that the G-spot is a system of glands and ducts located within the anterior (front) wall of the vagina. A similar approach has linked the G-spot with the urethral sponge.

History:

The release of fluids had been seen by medical practitioners as beneficial to health. Within this context, various methods were used over the centuries to release "female seed" (via vaginal lubrication or female ejaculation) as a treatment for suffocation ex semine retento (suffocation of the womb), female hysteria or green sickness. Methods included a midwife rubbing the walls of the vagina or insertion of the penis or penis-shaped objects into the vagina. In the book History of V, Catherine Blackledge lists old terms for what she believes refer to the female prostate (the Skene's gland), including the little stream, the black pearl and palace of yin in China, the skin of the earthworm in Japan, and saspanda nadi in the India sex manual Ananga Ranga.

The 17th-century Dutch physician Regnier de Graaf described female ejaculation and referred to an erogenous zone in the vagina that he linked as homologous with the male prostate; this zone was later reported by the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Coinage of the term G-spot has been credited to Addiego et al. in 1981, named after Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg's 1940s research, however, was dedicated to urethral stimulation; Gräfenberg stated, "An erotic zone always could be demonstrated on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra". The concept of the G-spot entered popular culture with the 1982 publication of The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality by Ladas, Whipple and Perry.  The G-Spot took on even more interest and discussion with the 1985 Adult Move titled “The Grafenberg Spot” that stared Traci Lords, Harry Reems, Annette Haven and Ginger Lynn. It has become a cult classic for its showing of how to find the G-spot with graphic depictions of women squirting after finding the G-Spot and for its staring Traci Lords who at the time was underage for adult movies.(see Squirting)

GANG BANG

One female with many males.

A gang bang is a term meaning a group of 3 or more males have sexual intercourse or getting oral sex from a female at the same time. In some circles (mainly Vanilla) considered this being an act of dominance and is to shame/embarrass/force the female. In reality there are women who considered this a thrill and an exciting sexual act.

A gang bang is a situation in which several people engage in physical sexual activity with one particular individual sequentially or at the same time. There are instances where 2 women can be involved in the gang bang. It all comes down to how many men to women ratio it is. The person is the central focus of the sexual activity; for example, one woman surrounded by several men. Rather than serial couplings by two people, the gang bang is defined by the number and simultaneity of the various sex acts, such as vaginal, anal or oral sex or double penetration, triple penetration, or quadruple penetration. A gang bang can also just consist of a woman kneeling in front of several men are normally standing in a circle who just jerk off on her (see circle jerk).

The largest gang bangs are sponsored by pornographic film companies, and recorded, but a gang bang is not unusual in the swinger community. It is more often considered to have multiple men and one woman, while a so-called "reverse gang-bang" (one man and many women), which can be seen in pornography, is rare in real life. Male-on-male gang bangs also happen.

Gang bangs are not defined by the precise number of participants, but usually involve more than three people and may involve a dozen or more. When the gang bang is organized specifically to culminate with the (near) simultaneous or rapid serial ejaculations of all male participants on the central woman, then it may be referred to by the Japanese term bukkake.

By contrast, three people engaged in sex is normally referred to as a threesome, and four people are normally referred to as a foursome. Gang bangs also differ from group sex, such as threesomes and foursomes, in that most (if not all) sexual acts during a gang bang are centered on or performed with just the central person. Although the participants of a gang bang may know each other, the spontaneity and anonymity of participants is often part of the attraction. Additionally, the other participants normally do not engage in sex acts with each other, but may stand nearby and masturbate while waiting for an opportunity to engage in sexual activity. 

A Daisy Chain is also connected to a Gang Bang:

Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.

DVDA

The abbreviation for "double-anal, double-vaginal". This is the term used when a girl takes four cocks in two holes. A hard core porn industry norm.

A Gang Bang is not to be confused with an “Orgy.”  (refer to Orgy)

GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE

A girlfriend experience (GFE) is a commercial experience that blurs the boundaries between a financial transaction and a romantic relationship. It ranges from a transactional sex relationship to a client paying a prostitute to pretend to be his girlfriend during the session. Within the sex industry, GFE is a common term for a sexual encounter in which both the escort and the client are willing to engage in reciprocal sexual pleasure and some degree of emotional intimacy. The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience. Within this particular realm of sex work, workers embody a sense of authenticity in order to make the experience more pleasurable for their customer, as well as to make a more lucrative outcome for themselves. Regardless of the type of service, including GFE, paying for any sexual act is still considered to be a form of prostitution and because of this the legality of it varies from place to place.

If the sex worker is male, the service is called the boyfriend experience.

In some instances a person who provides a girlfriend experience is also recognized and titled an "indoor prostitute". As the definition of what that type of service entitles, unlike a "street prostitute" an "indoor prostitute" provides a type of interaction that involves conversation, affection and mutual sexual pleasure. "Indoor prostitution" also includes: massage parlors and saunas, brothels, strip clubs, and escort prostitution.

Contrary to "street prostitution", indoor prostitution is less likely to receive complaints from bystanders. Most relationships are made online as opposed to the traditional idea of prostitution where the client would meet the prostitute on the streets. The cost of these services depends on the prostitute as well as the acts that are performed. The GFE typically starts with dinner at a nice restaurant followed by making out on the sofa back at the prostitute’s home and ends with cuddling and consensual sex which gives the feeling of a relationship. While it used to be the norm for legal prostitutes to never kiss on the mouth, the popularity of the GFE has changed the business with brothels.

GLORY HOLE

A glory hole (also spelled gloryhole and glory-hole) is a hole in a wall, or other partition (including a curtain with holes cut out for sex at swinger parties), often between public lavatory stalls or adult video arcade booths, for people to engage in sexual activity or observe the person in the next cubicle while one or both parties masturbate or engage in some type of sexual act. In addition to the penis, fingers, breast/nipples or the tongue may be inserted into the hole. In some cases a person on the other side may just watch a man and woman in the next booth have some form of sex.

Although glory holes are associated with gay / bisexual male culture, and anal or oral sex, there is a growing popularity for women to participate in Glory Hole sex. This is often due to the thrill of not knowing the other person on the other side of the wall. This can also be a part of agreed upon humiliation sex while her male partner looks on during the sexual activity with the stranger.  In the same sense more and more couples are visiting glory hole locations as a part of their relationship to “spice things up” or have a thrill or just a desire for the rush of seeing another man having sex with their mate. In rare cases there are women (married and single) to seek out glory holes to have sex with an unknown male. The partition maintains anonymity.

Some websites offer directories of glory holes, and in some cases people sometimes install private glory holes within their residences for hosting swinger parties. In most cases though they are often found at adult theaters and bookstores.  There have been cases where these locations have been shut down by law enforcement but, in rare cases there are locations such as Las Vegas where these locations are allowed to have glory holes as long as the management does not advertise it.

Glory holes are sometimes the topic of erotic literature, and pornographic films have been devoted to the uses of glory holes. There is even on line listings and websites dedicated to posting Glory Hole meetings. There is a huge following of men and women for these postings. Glory Hole Girls is now a part of main stream adult entertainment. In some of these videos a girl may take on several men one after another showing a counter on the screen of how many men have ejaculated which brings a whole new aspect to a “Gang Bang.” These “Gang Bang’s” can consist of the male receiving a hand job, blow job, or intercourse including ejaculating inside the woman known as a “creampie.” This video often ends in the woman being covered in cum over her face (see Bukkake), breast, ass or inside her pussy with the mix of all the cum dripping out of her pussy.

Numerous motivations can be ascribed to the use and eroticism of glory holes. For some, the sheer anonymity is itself arousing. Utilizing a glory hole is also an easy way to mitigate any perceived physical shortcomings. One social theorist has described the attraction of this form of sexual encounter thus: "The ultimate sexual objectification of sexual encounters is the glory hole in adult venues and in public toilets. As a wall separates the two participants, they have no contact except for a mouth, a penis, and perhaps a hand. Almost total anonymity is maintained as no other attributes are taken into consideration." The glory hole is seen as an iconic erotic oasis in gay and swinger subcultures around the world; people's motivations, experiences and attributions of value in its use are varied.

GOLDEN SHOWERS

A person who enjoys having someone urinate on them or enjoys watching women urinate

As a paraphilia, urine may be consumed or the person may bathe in it. Other variations include arousal from wetting or seeing someone else urinate in their pants or underclothes, or wetting the bed.  This can be associated with humiliation and or punishment in a dominating master / slave relationship.

Other forms of urolagnia may involve a tendency to be sexually aroused by smelling urine-soaked clothing or body parts. In many cases, a strong correlation or conditioning arises between urine smell or sight, and the sexual act. For some individuals the phenomenon may include a diaper fetish and/or arousal from infantilism.

Urolagnia is sometimes associated with, or confused with, arousal from having a full bladder or a sexual attraction to someone else experiencing the discomfort or pain of a full bladder, possibly a sadomasochistic inclination.

GREEK SEX

Anal intercourse; The sexual act of a male inserting his penis into another person’s ass. An object can also be used in place of the penis so females can also perform anal sex (See anal Sex)

GROUP ROOM

A room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall to wall mattresses or pads. (see Mat-room/ Playroom).

GROUP SEX

Sexual activity between three or more people often at a swinger’s party. Swinging; Social Event for sex. In almost all of these cases of Group Sex the participants now each other.

GROWTH SWINGING

Social sexual environment that promotes emotional, personal and social growth

HARD CORE

A swing party or swing engagement where sexual intercourse is assumed and expected. Or material that is XXX in nature.

HARD SWINGING

(see Hard Core)

HEAD

(See Oral Sex / Blow Job)

HEDONIST

One who lives for pleasure.

HETEROSEXUAL

Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.

HOMOSEXUAL

Sexual attraction to members of the same sex.

HOUSE PARTY

A swingers party conducted in a private residence.

HORNY

Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. Often followed by the person being sexually aroused.

HOT DOG IN THE HALL WAY

A "hotdog in a hallway" is used to describe a vagina that's so wide, it lacks the ability to provide an adequate grip on your penis, to put it nicely.

How to use it in a sentence: Man, having sex with her was like throwing a hotdog in a hallway. I could hear an echo every time I pushed in.

HUMMER

The well known added variation to a blowjob in which a broad hums her favorite tune while she sucks away. The vibrations felt against your dick will most definitely produce a healthy orgasm.

HUNG

Refers to a man with a large penis. Usually 9” or longer.

INCEST

Incest is sexual activity between family members or close relatives. This typically includes sexual activity between people in a consanguineous relationship (blood relations), and sometimes those related by affinity, stepfamily, those related by adoption or marriage, or members of the same clan or lineage.

The incest taboo is and has been one of the most widespread of all cultural taboos, both in present and in many past societies. Most modern societies have laws regarding incest or social restrictions on closely consanguineous marriages. In societies where it is illegal, consensual adult incest is seen by some as a victimless crime. Some cultures extend the incest taboo to relatives with no consanguinity such as milk-siblings, stepsiblings, and adoptive siblings. Third-degree relatives (such as half-aunt, half-nephew, first cousin) on average share 12.5% genes, and sexual relations between them is viewed differently in various cultures, from being discouraged to being socially acceptable. The children of incestuous relationships were regarded as illegitimate, and are still so regarded in some societies today. In most cases, the parents did not have the option to marry to remove that status, as incestuous marriages were, and are, normally also prohibited.

A common justification for prohibiting incest is avoiding inbreeding: a collection of genetic disorders suffered by the children of parents with a close genetic relationship. Such children are at greater risk for congenital disorders, death, and developmental and physical disability, and that risk is proportional to their parents' coefficient of relationship a measure of how close the parents are related genetically. But inbreeding is not the sole basis for the incest taboo for two reasons. First, most prohibitions on incest cover affinity relationships that is, relationships created by marriage (for example, father-in-law and stepfather) as well as relationships created by adoption. And second, the incest taboo also applies to non-procreative sex for example, sex between infertile relatives, relatives of the same sex, or sex performed with birth control.

In some societies, such as those of Ancient Egypt and others, brother–sister, father–daughter, mother–son, cousin–cousin, aunt–nephew, uncle–niece, and other combinations of relations were practiced among royalty as a means of perpetuating the royal lineage. Some societies, such as the Balinese and some Inuit tribes, have different views about what constitutes illegal and immoral incest. However, sexual relations with a first-degree relative (such as a parent or sibling) are almost universally forbidden.

Due to the taboo related to incest it has become something of a sought after venue of adult movies, books and portrayal in adult magazines. The subject is so sought after that there has been series of movies dedicated to the “Taboo” subject of incest that movies called “Taboo” which has gone into numerous sequels.

INDOOR SPORTS

Swinging activities in general conducted in someone’s home or hotel.

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP

Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.

Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

KINKY

A person who enjoys unusual sexual acts.

In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (a "kink") in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. It is thus a colloquial term for non-normative sexual behavior. The term "kink" has been claimed by some who practice sexual fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to sexual objectification and certain paraphilias. In the 21st century the term "kink", along with expressions like BDSM, leather and fetish, has become more commonly used than the term paraphilia.

Kink sexual practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between kink and fetishism, defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the latter as replacing it. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.

KNOTTY

A woman who enjoys having intercourse with a dog. The Knotty refers to the point where a dogs penis enlarges and gets stuck inside the female dog also know as being “tied”

Yes, if a woman is copulating (having sex) with a dog, during a dog's ejaculation, their penis swells and their “knot”, as it's called and known, will tightly seal the vagina to allow the sperm the best access to the egg. It's at the opening of the womb and allows him to ejaculate directly inside with his sperm to get as close to her egg as possible.

As far as "getting stuck" yes a male dog's penis is a bit different than a human penis and is made to swell inside a females pussy when they have sex and so lock the pair together in what is called the "TIE". If a male dog penetrates a woman and swells then she too will be "locked" to the dog for as long as the dog’s penis is swollen.

This happens to ensure insemination, and the male can ejaculate several times before he shrinks down small enough to unmount.

During mating the tissues bulbus glandis at the base of their penises swell up and lock (tie) immediately after penetration of the male's penis inside the female. The locking is completed by circular muscles just inside the female's vagina tightening thus preventing the male from withdrawing. The circular muscles also contract intermittently, which has the effect of stimulating ejaculation of sperm, followed by prostatic fluid, as well as maintaining the swelling of the penis and therefore the tie, for some time. For domestic dogs the tie may last up to half an hour or more, though usually less depending on how long the penis stays swollen.

The penis sometimes emerges from the penile sheath during sexual arousal.

At the time of penetration, the canine penis is not erect, and can only penetrate the female because it includes a narrow bone called the "baculum", a feature of most placental mammals. When the male achieves penetration, he will usually hold the female tighter and thrust deeply. It is during this time that the male's penis expands and it is important that the bulbus gland is far enough inside for the female to be able to trap it. Unlike human sexual intercourse, where the male penis commonly becomes erect before entering the female, canine copulation involves the male first penetrating the female, after which swelling of the penis to erection occurs, which usually happens rapidly.

Women who have sex with a dog will put mittens or socks on the dogs front paws to keep them from being scratched during the act. 

A woman cannot become pregnant from a dog ejaculating inside of them. (see Bestiality)

LABIALASTY

Labiaplasty can be performed as a discrete surgery, or as a subordinate procedure within a vaginoplasty. Some surgeries may be needed for discomfort occurring from chronic labial irritation that develops from tight clothing, sex, sports, or other physical activities.

In some cases some women find that their labia’s are too big and not sexually appealing to men / other women. They chose to go under the knife to make their labia smaller.

There are some men who find a woman with a large labia sexually appealing more than other woman who do not have larger labia’s. There are sexual likes and dislikes for all.

LIFESTYLE

The manner in which one conducts ones life. Frequently used as shorthand for "the swinging lifestyle" or the “Adult Lifestyle.”(see Swinger/Swinging)

MARITAL AIDS

Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. Toys and devices that help a married couple in the bedroom achieve sexual pleasure. This can include clothing for role playing.

MASOCHISM

Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MASTER/SLAVE

Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship (see B&D, Bondage, discipline)

MATROOM

Room set aside for group sex. (see Group Room / Play Room).

MEET FOR PLEASURE

Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

MEET N GREET

Unlike “Meet for Pleasure”

A term used for swingers to meet other couples and singles for the first time to see if they connect or decide to take things further sexually.  Many swinger couples chose to set up these “Meet n Greets” because the other “couple” or person will often turn out not to be what they represented on the phone or website either by appearance or actually being a single male looking to get lucky.

Often a male will say he is part of a swinger couple over the internet or texting but, will show up without the “wife” saying something came up at the last minute as an excuse to meet the couple in hopes of still having sex with the woman of the couple. These are swinger posers. Sometime a poser will use a fake photo of a sexy woman as “bait” for the other couple.

There are even times where the male part of a couple will agree to the Meet n Greet for swinging purposes and bring his mate not telling her that is a meeting of couples for swinging / sex with other people hoping the wife will “go for it.” This usually turns into a disaster and a beginning of the end of a relationship.(see Off Premises)

MENAGE A' TROIS

Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a sexual interaction.

May involve an ongoing emotional relationship of the participants often in a swingers relationship. The sexual interaction can range from just oral, masturbation, anal and intercourse. (see Threesome)

MERCY FUCK

Engaging in sexual activity that you don't really want to be in simply to save someone's feelings.

MILE HIGH CLUB

The mile-high club (or MHC) is slang for the people who have had sexual intercourse while on board on a flying aircraft.

One explanation for the act is the vibration of the plane, which may speed or improve arousal. Some say they have fantasies about pilots or flight attendants, or a fetish about planes themselves. For others, the appeal of joining the MHC is the thrill of doing something taboo and the thrill of the risk of being discovered.

M.I.L.F.

"Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck"

Mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual (commonly a teenager male) sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. Just because there moms doesn't mean that they don't need a spark in their love life. If they've ever breastfed, they have really responsive nipples and a core of erectile tissue in their breasts. The ones in good shape have worked at regaining control over their vaginas (Kegel exercises).MILFs are usually real careful about birth control, they know accidents happen but they take responsible steps. They want to fuck with abandon, with no romantic complications.

An extremely hot middle aged mom, who leaves you in masturbatory bliss.

"My friends mom Rachel" is one hot ass MILF!"

"Woah, Johnny, your mom's a MILF!"

Many guys would have wished that a M.I.L.F. would have baby sat them so they could have lost their virginities at a way younger age, without the fear of mommy or daddy knowing it.

Acronym meaning Mother I'd Love to Fuck. Used to describe a physically / sexually attractive woman of an age likely to have teenage sons of her own (generally 35-50). Term widely used by said teenage sons, most often in reference to each other's mothers. When with their Boys, they joke about MILFs... privately, they go home and fap themselves rotten thinking about the MILFs they just joked about.

A mother, usually in her middle ages - that despite giving birth to your best friend, is still hot. It's quite common for teenage boys to befriend someone only because their mother's a "milf".

The definition stems back to an old art of checking out older women with kids and needing a short acronym to inform a fellow connoisseur that you have spotted a worthy trophy. This stands for Mother I'd Like to Fuck (The "to" is Silent)

Damn, look at that MILF!!!

How to spot a MILF: Woman mid-to late 30s to 50s.,Wears sunglasses or glasses in her hair, Exposed mid-riff, Exposed thong/g-string, Pierced belly-button and possibly nipple(s), Tattoo - either around belly-button or design on lower back, Short skirt or jeans, Tight t-shirt with no bra on underneath.

When out shopping you can easily spot lots of hot MILFs in the grocery store.

A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.  A ”Cougar” is a similar sexy older woman as a M.I.L.F. but, she does not have children.

MISSONARY

The missionary position noun

a position for having sex in which a man and woman lie facing each other with the man on top and the woman on her back.

MONEY SHOT

Originally, in general film-making usage the term money shot was a reference to the scene that cost the most money to produce; in addition, the inclusion of this expensive special effect sequence is being counted on to become a selling point for the film. For example, in an action thriller, an expensive special effects sequence of a dam bursting might be called the "money shot" of the film.

In the Adult World the use of money shot is used to denote the ejaculation scene in pornographic films is attributed to producers paying the male actors extra for it. The meaning of the term money shot has sometimes been borrowed back from pornography by the film and TV industry with a meaning closer to that used in pornographic films. For example, in TV talk shows, the term, borrowed from pornography, denotes a highly emotional scene, expressed in visible bodily terms.

Women now are more of the bigger part of the “Money Shot” pay wise due to their taking the shot in some more graphic locations especially in the eyes where it can sting. Also for their taking multiple loads of cum and everyone coming to the realization that men and women are buying the movies for the “Money Shot” on the girl. Without that it is just a “Soft Porn” movie.

MORESOMES

More than three people in a swinging interaction. Often used in place of the word “Gang Bang” in order for the woman not to sound bad depending on who she says it to.

MORPHODITE

a word derived from hermaphrodite, describing an individual with both male and female genitals. Usually true for other organisms and extremily rare for humans, but it can be used as an offensive term against an individual.

Born intersex: The people who are biologically neither male nor female.

NEWBIES or NEWCOMERS

New people in swinging; Firsttimers

NEXFLIX AND CHILL

Netflix and chill is an internet slang term used either as an invitation to watch Netflix together or as a euphemism for some form of sex, either as part of a romantic partnership or as a "booty call".

Since its first recorded, nonsexual use in a tweet posted in 2009, the phrase has gained popularity within the Twitter community and other social media sites like Facebook and Vine. By 2015, Netflix and chill had become an internet meme and its use on teenage social media was commonly described as "sexual" by Fusion. Much like selfie, the use of the term has spread beyond the internet and into general use.

The first recorded use of the phrase "Netflix and chill" was in a tweet posted by "NoFaceNina" on January 21, 2009. It said, "I'm about to log onto Netflix and chill for the rest of the night." Early use of the phrase was without sexual connotations, referring simply to the act of watching the online streaming service, typically by oneself. By 2013, Netflix's popularity in the US had risen greatly, having accumulated millions of paid subscribers, increasing verb use of the brand and this phrase as a standalone compound noun.

In April 2015, a definition of the phrase was added to Urban Dictionary stating that it meant "code for two people going to each other's houses and [having sexual intercourse] or doing other sexual related acts".

NOOKIE

Slang etymology

A slang term for sexual intercourse. British army slang for vagina, from Arabic niki.

NUDISM /NUDIST

A lifestyle or person who enjoys the open appreciation of the human body without clothing. Some nudists are also swingers and some swingers are also nudists, but generally nudism and swinging do not overlap.

A nudist camp and other locations were established so that nudist can enjoy being nude without gawkers looking at them or judging them.  These locations do not encourage sexual activity.  For the reason that true nudist include family members including children. It is not uncommon to be at a nudist resort and see children nude next to grown adults even those not being related to them. This has grown into a concern for some with the light being shown on pedophiles.  Still these true nudist see nothing wrong with their children being nude. It is a state of mind of being free with no clothes hindering their free spirit.

With all of this in mind, adults still use these places to meet and have sex although behind closed doors, hedges and Jacuzzi’s.  True Nudist frown heavily on this occurring. (see Exhibtionist)

OFF PREMISE

Off premise clubs are strictly for meeting & socializing. It could be an off premise swing club, cocktail lounge, bar, or home where you go specifically to meet other swingers. Swinging will be elsewhere with the interested couples and singles responsible for the arrangements.

The arrangements could include who is to be invited, the location, date and time. (See Meet n Greet)

ON PREMISE

On premise clubs allow for meeting, socializing, and swinging to happen all in the same location.

OPEN DOOR SWINGERS

(see Open Swinging)

OPEN MARRIAGE

Descriptive of one form of marital relationship which recognizes and accepts sexual nonexclusivity. While couples who consider themselves to have an “Open Marriage” do not consider themselves as “Swingers” mainly because they do not like that term and associate it with “key parties” and all that comes with being a true swinger.  To someone who is in an “Open Marriage” they are not hunting for other partners. They are more of the thought that if they meet someone by chance and they hit it off and have some kind of attraction and it leads to sex then that is cool.

Some “Open Marriage” couples have regular friends that they have sex with which makes it more acceptable. They have the understanding that they only play with one other person which helps them feel safer about not getting an STD. The only problem with this is that the other person can’t mess around with anyone else. Trust is huge.

These couples together are very happy with one another they just don’t want to stifle the other persons desires to have sex with another person. They know at the end of the day they will be with one another.

These couples may or may not have an agreement to tell the other of the sexual encounter they had. In some cases talking about the encounter is a part of their sex together.  Talking about the encounter with another person may be a turn on.  (see open relationship) 

OPEN RELATIONSHIP

An open relationship is an intimate relationship which is consensually non-monogamous. This term may sometimes refer to polyamory, but it is often used to signify a primary emotional and intimate relationship between two partners who agree to have sexual relationships but not romantic relationships with other people. The nature of the openness in the relationship, including what outside sexual contact is permissible, varies widely. Open relationships include any type of romantic relationship (dating, marriage, etc.) that is open. The concept of an open relationship has been recognized since the 1970s.

To a large degree, open relationships are a generalization of the concept of a relationship beyond monogamous relationships. A form of open relationship is the open marriage, in which the participants in a marriage have an open relationship.

There are several different styles of open relationships. Some examples include:

Multi-partner relationships, between three or more partners where a sexual relationship does not occur between all of the parties involved.

Hybrid relationships, when one partner is nonmonogamous and the other is monogamous.

Swinging, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

The term open relationship is sometimes used interchangeably with the closely related term polyamory, but the two concepts are not identical. The main unifying element to open relationship styles is non-exclusivity of romantic or sexual relationships.

Some believe that open relationships occur more frequently in certain demographics, such as the young rather than the old in America, including, more specifically, the college-educated middle-class, rather than the uneducated working-class, or people of certain ethnic and/or other racial minorities. Open relationships may also be more common among females rather than males, especially those in the same categories, such as college-educated, middle-class, white, younger Americans. This may be because women have more to gain by stressing this idea of equal rights, and that the women’s rights movement supports the idea of open relationships.

A 1974 study showed that male students who either cohabit or live in a communal group are more likely to become involved in open relationships than females, and are still more interested in the concept than females even if not participating in open relationships. A survey taken by gay men's "health and life magazine", FS Magazine, 41% of gay men interviewed have been in an open relationship and of the men who have been in open relationships, 27% believe that it is a good thing.

Many couples within open relationships are dual-career, meaning that both primary partners have a stable job and/or a career. Both men and women in these, especially in closed groups, are also more likely to be in managerial jobs. Most also are either childfree, or post child-rearing.

Reasons for entering an open relationship:

Liking another person but not wanting to end the old relationship being non-monogamous by nature (i.e. born that way)

A difference emerging between two people in a relationship one partner realizing that they are unable to fulfill the other's needs.

Varying sex drive between partners.

One or both partners desiring more freedom, companionship, intellectual variety, or a variety of sexual partners.

A need for challenge: some people feel that their relationship is inadequate unless they are being challenged. Open relationships may create a sense of jealousy, attachment, or possessiveness, all of which are challenges for a relationship to work through. These emotions can also lead to greater self-awareness which may be seen as satisfying to those in open relationships.

The enjoyment of new relationship energy, the state of heightened emotional and sexual receptivity and excitement experienced during the formation of a new physical relationship.

Being able to meet other couples and individuals with a similar outlook with whom the participants can connect with on an intellectual and emotional level.

Being in a relationship of convenience, that is, one that is not primarily based on mutual feeling of love towards each other (anymore), but rather on economic or social factors

Distance – when partners live in separate parts of the world for part or all of the time

 Sex may be more pleasing, and the participants may engage in it more frequently than those in an average couple.

OPEN SWINGING

1.  A couple swinging with another couple in the same room.

2.  Several or all participating couples together in the same room

3.  Swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as a couple or in pairings and group sex during the progress of the party.

ORAL SEX

Sexual activity in which the genitals of one partner are stimulated by the mouth of the other; fellatio or cunnilingus.

ORGY

noun: orgy; plural noun: orgies

A wild party, especially one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity.

Synonyms:  wild party, debauch, carousal, carouse, revel, revelry; More informal binge, jag, bender, love-in, toot; literary bacchanal; archaic wassail

 "a drunken orgy"

 Excessive indulgence in a specified activity.

Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.

In modern usage, an orgy is a sex party where guests freely engage in open and unrestrained sexual activity or group sex.

Swingers' parties do not always conform to this designation because at many swinger parties the sexual partners may all know each other or at least have some commonality among economic class, educational attainment or other shared attributes. Some swingers contend that an orgy, as opposed to a sex party, requires some anonymity of sexual partners in complete sexual abandon. Other kinds of "sex party" may fare less well with this labeling.

In some Orgies the participants may wear masks to conceal their identity.

Participation in an "orgy" is a common sexual fantasy and group sex targeting such consumers is a subgenre in pornographic films.

An Orgy is not the same as a Gang Bang.  Orgies consist of a large group of men and women where a Gang Bang is made up of several men and one woman.(see Gag Bang)

PARTY

Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.

PARTY CLOTHES

Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wraparounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.

These clothes going to the party all depends on the person. The more outgoing and sexually minded person who does not care what others think may wear provocative clothing such as a short dress that exposes garter belts and hose, a deep plunging neckline to expose the breast, even lingerie worn on the outside. While some others who want to conceal that they are sexually out going may wear something more conservative but, wear sexy lingerie underneath those clothes or bring something to change into.

PARTY HOUSE

A nonmembership swing club offering a regular schedule of onpremise swing parties.

PASSIVE

Quiet, submissive noncontributor, willing to receive corrective training.

Docile and submissive in swinging. The passive player (see Disipline)

PONY PLAY

An extreme form of BDSM, "pony play" is when the bottom, or the sub, becomes an animal (hence, pony) and no longer has the responsibilities or privileges that humans have. Also called "bestial play."

How to use it in a sentence: I really enjoy engaging in pony play with Tara; she becomes my pony girl and I'm her trainer at least once a month.

PEARL NECKLACE

A "pearl necklace" is slang for a sexual act in which a man ejaculates semen on or near the neck, chest, or breast of a woman. Such ejaculation can follow mammary intercourse, fellatio, intercourse, or masturbation over the other person. The term originates from the way the deposited semen resembles a necklace of translucent white pearls.

Receiving a pearl necklace is an activity used as a safe sex alternative for people who prefer not to wear condoms. It is also a sexual way of showing a man’s appreciation to the woman although messy and she probably would prefer the real Pearls.

In popular culture George Carlin used the term in his "Incomplete List of Impolite Words" joke as early as 1984, on the album Carlin on Campus. The term was also used in the stoner comedy Half Baked (1996). Boogie-Blues band ZZ Top was criticized for the lyrics of its song "Pearl Necklace" as one of its songs whose lyrics were claimed to objectify women. The term was introduced to viewers of the HBO sex comedy Sex and the City in episode 69, first broadcast in 2004. In the episode one of the characters misunderstands a promise she overhears made to another character, Samantha Jones, who then explained the term.

PEGGING

In case you missed the Broad City episode about it, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on and fucks a man up the asshole.

PHOTO EXCHANGE

Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self for similar photos of others.

PLAYING

Playing, partying, swinging, adult activities. Euphemisms for engaging in sexual activity.

POLY

A lifestyle which recognizes and accepts close, loving, but not necessarily sexual, relationships between multiple partners in either a formal or informal marital relation. Includes triangles, group marriage, polygamy, polyandry, and other multipartner forms.

PIRATE

The most common usage is Australian slang for a man searching around for casual sex, as in "on the pirate" or the verb "to pirate.”

It has also been used to describe a pimp who steals a prostitute from another pimp.

PLAY

Euphemism for sex or sex play.

P/P

Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).

PRO

Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escort.

PUFF PUFF

Puff-Puff (Japanese: ぱマふモぱマふモ Hepburn: Pafu Pafu) is a Japanese term for the placing of a person's face between a woman's breasts, often for sexual pleasure.

The term "Puff-Puff" comes from the Japanese onomatopoeia for a woman rubbing her breasts in someone's face; the term can also be used for a woman juggling her own breasts. The term was originally coined by manga artist Akira Toriyama and featured in Chapter 15 of his series Dragon Ball, published in Weekly Shōnen Jump on March 25, 1985. Puff-Puff is one of the special acts available in many of the Dragon Quest video games, for which Toriyama is the character designer.

References to the act were removed from the American broadcast of the Dragon Ball anime adaptation. One reference of the act was also removed from the American release of the first Dragon Quest game.(see Motorboat)

PUBLIC PARTY

“Public Party” or a “Fans Meet n Greet.” Where a woman who has an adult web site puts out a message to her fans to “Meet” her so she can show her “Appreciation” for them being a fan. By doing so it doesn’t scream to the authorities that a meeting for sex is being arraigned.

These fans meetings usually take place at an adult bookstore, adult theater, adult video arcade or even a public club that has private areas away from the rest of the crowd.

These meetings can consist of the woman posing in sexual situations wearing sexy lingerie, dresses, and even clothes paid and given to her by her fans. She may also perform a sexual act from a hand job to a gang bang. Having these “Public Parties” insures more return hits on her web site and more content by posting photos and videos of her meeting her fans which means more revenue from fans joining the website in hopes of their meeting her. So those “Public Parties” are a win win for all.

PUBLIC SEX

Public sex is sexual activity that takes place in a public context. It refers to one or more persons performing a sex act in a public place or in a private place which can be viewed from a public place.

Such a private place may be a back yard or a bedroom with the curtains open. Public sex also includes sexual acts in semi-public places where the general public is free to enter, such as shopping malls. Public sex acts can be performed in cars (called "parking or dogging"), on beaches, in forests, theaters, concerts, amusement parks, parks, clubs, buses, airplanes, streets, restaurants, toilet cubicles, even cemeteries.

Social views related to public sex and sexuality vary greatly between different cultures and different times. There are many and varied laws which apply to sex in public, which use a variety of terms such as indecent exposure, public lewdness, gross indecency, and others. In some jurisdictions, an offense is committed only if the participants are seen by others, so that a sex act may occur in a closed toilet cubicle without an offense being committed.

Public sex can be associated to thrill sex and the desire to be seen performing the sex act which heightens the intensity of the act. Other are Exhibitionist  who just enjoy being seen naked or partially nude.

In the UK, there has been a rise in public sex venues, possibly due to a more relaxed approach to the enforcement of laws relating to public sex since the early 1990s. (also refer to Exhibitionism and Dogging)

QUEEF

A well known, but sometimes embarrassing occurrence. Queefing happens when air gets trapped in a girls vagina, and makes a soft hissing, or farting kind of a sound while that air is released.

QUICKIE

A quickie refers to a brief or spontaneous episode of sexual activity, with the act finishing in a very short amount of time.

Generally, the term presupposes that foreplay is skipped and that at least one of the partners climaxes. A quickie may involve intercourse or be limited to manual or oral sex. A quickie between a heterosexual couple may generally satisfy only the man's desire, but, with some form of stimulation of the vulva, can be satisfactory for a woman as well. It, however, may not provide a woman enough time to lubricate naturally, and so the use of an artificial water-based lubricant may be required.

Quickies may be a solution to unequal sexual desire in a relationship, but if they become the only form of sex, the relationship may suffer. To avoid discovery, a quickie may be a necessity for public sex. Being hidden in public or in private, partners may dress and/or choose sex positions to reduce time consumption of undressing. Like the female part wearing wide skirts or front closure dresses and open crotch lingerie, thongs to be pushed aside, bodysuits or nothing underneath. The Viennese oyster or spooning positions for example can work around the constrictions of tights with boots.

RECREATIONAL SWINGER

A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.

RED WINGS

The expression to earn one's red wings means to perform cunnilingus on a menstruating female. The phrase is a reference to menstrual blood stains in the shape of a small bird's wings that are liable to form on the giving partner's cheeks during the act.

The slang term originated among biker gangs, by the 1980s. It was a form of honor to “earn your “Red Wings.” Biker clubs even had a patch for it indicating “red wings.”

RESTRAINT

Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.

RIM JOB

(see Analingus)

RIMMING

(see Analingus)

ROMAN

(See Orgy)

 RUBBER

1. Condom

2. Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.

SADOMASOCHISM

Sadomasochism is the giving or receiving pleasure from acts involving the receipt or infliction of pain or humiliation. Practitioners of sadomasochism may seek sexual gratification from their acts. While the terms sadist and masochist refer respectively to one who enjoys giving or receiving pain, practitioners of sadomasochism may switch between activity and passivity.

The abbreviation S&M is often used for sadomasochism, although practitioners themselves normally remove the ampersand and use the acronym S-M or SM or S/M when written throughout the literature. Sadomasochism is not considered a clinical paraphilia unless such practices lead to clinically significant distress or impairment for a diagnosis. Similarly, sexual sadism within the context of mutual consent, generally known under the heading BDSM, is distinguished from non-consensual acts of sexual violence or aggression.

SAFE

Someone who is incapable of impregnating or being impregnated.

SAFE SEX

The use of condoms, diaphragms, or other protection against STD's and pregnancy.

SAFE WORD

Word or phrase agreed up on by a couple as a subtle way of letting each other know about their comfort levels without making a scene.

SAFE SIGN

Signal (could be a hand gesture or a "look") agreed up on by a couple as a subtle way of letting each other know about their comfort levels without making a scene in public or at a party or “greet n meet.”

SAME ROOM SWINGER

Couples who prefer to swing together in the same room or at least have their partner present during their encounter.

S.A.S.E.

Self addressed stamped envelope.

SCISSORING

Because people are way too obsessed with how lesbians have sex, even straight people have heard of scissoring. Basically, it’s when two women rub their clits and/or vaginas together until someone climaxes.

SENSORY DEPRIVATION

Sensory deprivation or perceptual isolation is the deliberate reduction or removal of stimuli from one or more of the senses. Simple devices such as blindfolds or hoods and earmuffs can cut off sight and hearing, while more complex devices can also cut off the sense of smell, touch, taste, thermoception (heat-sense), and 'gravity'.

One popular sexual situation is where a person enters a dark room where they cannot see the hand in front of their face. In this room there are other people who also cannot see. This leads to having to use your hands to feel around and see who is in the room, what if anything they are wearing and if the person touching is not stopped they can participate in some form of sexual act.

In these cases couples enter these rooms often naked and while in the room they explore the bodies of others. These couples may see if they can find their mates in the dark. In some cases just hearing your mate making sexual pleasure noises is a turn on knowing that someone is pleasuring their mate. Holding their wife while someone is pleasuring the wife in the dark, feeling the strangers hand, mouth or penis touching her can be an erotic moment. In some rare cases bi curiosity is explored in these dark rooms depending on the other person participating agreement.

Using blindfolds on a person can be extremely erotic. These situations can consist of a couple where one of them is blindfolded and the other uses objects to stimulate their other senses. These objects can range from a feather to a sharp object or ice or hot wax.

Swinger couples often have their mate (usually the woman) become blindfolded at which point another person or persons enter the room and pleasure the woman.  Often these are ways of introducing another woman or male to the relationship in a controlled environment to test the waters to see if the couple is ready for taking the next step of their sexual relationship. This can turn out to be awesome or a disaster depending on both parties.  The man may not be ready to hear his wife getting off to another man. The woman may be turned off by having another woman touching her or a strange man touching her. Communication is paramount.

Sensory deprivation has been used in various alternative medicines and in psychological experiments (e.g. with an isolation tank).

Short-term sessions of sensory deprivation are described as relaxing and conducive to meditation; however, extended or forced sensory deprivation can result in extreme anxiety, hallucinations, bizarre thoughts, and depression.

SEPARATE SWINGER

Couples who are more comfortable NOT having their partners present during an encounter.

Most swingers look at these “Separate Swingers” as time bombs waiting to go off. If they are not comfortable being present then they really aren’t comfortable with their mate having sex with another person.

In some cases these “Separate Swingers” are no more than a really hot woman and a not so good looking man and the man uses the hot woman as a ticket to get into swingers clubs and private homes where the guests are usually attractive people. The sexy woman usually does not participate but, is their so the husband can play.

In some cases “Separate Swingers” are married men who tell other swingers that their wives are fine with them swinging when in fact their wife has no idea that their husband is “messing around.”

In any case, use caution when dealing with “Separate Swingers.” (see open relationship/marriage and Single)

SEXUAL ROLEPLAY

Sexual roleplay is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual roleplay as a means of overcoming sexual inhibitions. It may take place in the real world, or via an internet forum, chat-room, or email allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interests to be enacted.

How seriously the play is taken depends on the people involved, and the scenario may be anywhere from simple and makeshift to detailed and elaborate, complete with costumes and a script. Nearly any role could become the base material for an erotic experience, and there is no limit to what objects an individual could consider sexual. It may, for example, involve wearing of a costume which is regarded as erotic, such as a miniskirt and stockings, or one or both partners being nude, say for an evening. It may involve elements of dominance and submission, passivity or obedience. It may involve sexual bondage, either being restrained or a sex partner being restrained.

Depending on the play scenario, the roleplay may be before spectators, and bystanders may be unknowing participants in a roleplay. For example, the roleplay may involve house guests or may be taken out of a couple's home and into, say, a bar, street, park etc. A role may require, for example, one or both partners to flirt with a stranger, or for one partner to seduce the other partner's friend, etc. It may also call for one or both partners to, say, strip in a car or park.

The popularity of the Internet has also allowed for online sexual encounters, known as cybersex, which may involve roleplay.

Common scenarios include:

Doctor/Nurse/Patient: medical fetishism where the participants play the roles of doctor, nurse, or patient.

Cop & Prostitute or traffic stop where the role of the cop threatens to arrest the prostitute or traffic violator unless some arraignment can be made.

Escort – Client: one partner assumes the role of paid escort for an encounter.

Executive – Secretary: one partner assumes the role of a business executive while the other takes the role of their secretary.

Handyman – Housewife: the tradesman enters the housewife's home initially with the intent of carrying out plumbing/maintenance work. A Pool boy and housewife home alone can also be in this category.

Master – Slave: the slave is required to comply with all demands of the master.

Photographer – Model: this allows one partner to photograph the other as a precursor to sexual interaction.

Stripper – Client: one participant performs a striptease for the other.

Teacher – Student: the student dresses for the part and must do as he/she is told, or is punished.

Other scenarios include:

Ageplay: where an individual acts and/or treats another as if they were a different age. The practice can be regressive, in which the goal is to re-experience childhood, or sexual, recreating a sexual relationship with people of the pretend and/or true ages. Generally this can involve someone pretending to be younger than they actually are, but more rarely can involve assuming an older role.

Animal-play: where a player is treated as a non-human animal such as a dog, pony, or cat.

Authority figure/Misbehaving Adult: where a player takes on the role of an authority figure and blackmails or humiliates his or her partner into sexual activity.

Gender-play: where one or more players take on roles of another gender.

Incest fantasy: also known as incest play, where two or more play the role of family members.

Babysitter and Parent where the female plays the part of the babysitter and the male is the parent who catches the babysitter in a compromising position and threatens to be exposed.

Babysitter and child where the female plays the part of the babysitter who has to watch over a teen male.  The teen or the babysitter makes a move of the other.

Owner/Inanimate object: such as the bottom being human furniture.

Prison fetish: situational play set in a prison environment. Given real life prisons are same-sex communities, this fetish does lend itself to male on male or female on female activities and settings. Opposite gender play is also possible between inmates and guards or when the setting includes a co-ed facility/institution. Prison play is also an expansion of the uniform fetish by use of inmate, guard, and staff uniforms.

Torturer/Captive prisoner: where one player is a captor who abuses the other, can also include ravishment and kidnap scenarios.

Uniform fetish: one participant dresses in uniform (for instance as a school student, cheerleader, French maid, etc.), while the other participant plays an authority figure (e.g., a parent, teacher, coach, police officer). Can also include scenarios with both participants in uniforms.

SHEMALE

Shemale (also known as she-male) is a term primarily used in sex work to describe a transgender woman with male genitalia and female secondary sex characteristics, usually including breasts from breast augmentation or use of hormones. Many transgender people regard the term shemale as offensive, arguing that it mocks or shows a lack of respect towards transgender individuals; in this view, the term emphasizes the natal sex of a person and neglects their gender identity. Using the term shemale for a transsexual woman often implies that she is working in the sex trade. The phrase is commonly used in pornography.

The term shemale has been used since the mid-19th century, when it was a humorous colloquialism for female, especially an aggressive woman.

Some biologists have used shemale to refer to male non-human animals displaying female traits or behaviors, such as female pheromones being given off by male reptiles.

The term is also used by some psychologists to refer to male-to-female transsexual people who have transitioned to female but have not undergone genital surgery. (see Maphrodite)

SGL

Single person.

SKAT PLAY

The sexual pleasure received from watching or having someone have a bowel movement on another person.

SLOPPY SECONDS

A man who enjoys having sex with a woman after another man has ejaculated in her pussy. Usually referred to as a “Creampie.”  There is a growing sexual fetish for men to have sex with their wives after a stranger or strangers have ejaculated into their wives.

In the same sense married women find it erotic and exciting to come home to their husband after being with another man or men and showing their husband that they have a present for them. They then show the husband their wet pussies filled with a strangers seed. In some cases the woman will wear panties to keep as much of the cum in as they can. They also offer up their panties to their husband as proof of her being with another man who had ejaculated in her.

The term is also used, by extension, to refer to any act of entering into a sexual relationship with a person who had previously been in a sexual relationship with someone else in one's peer group.

This term originated in the 70’s where teenage boys would have sex with the slut of the neighborhood and the toughest boy would demand to go first so he would not have sloppy seconds with the girl.

The phrase buttered bun is sometimes used to refer to said orifice. The practice is also referred to as a "wet deck".

S&M

Sadism and Masochism (see Sadism, Masochism).

SINGLE

A swinger without a partner, single or married. Many in the swinger community look at this term as a joke.  They have to thinking that “how can a single man who is not in any relationship be considered a swinger. Aren’t they just a guy who likes that have sex. They have no partner to bring to the party. If they do have a partner who doesn’t see themselves as a swinger is just a guy who is cheating on his wife.”

SLUT

A derogatory term.

Refers to a sexually promiscuous person, usually female.

One who engages in sexual activity with a large number of persons, occasionally simultaneously.

Also refers to one who engages in sexual activity outside of a long-term relationship within the duration of said relationship.

These sexual activities include but are not limited to: passionate kissing, manual stimulation of genitalia and/or breasts in the case of a female; oral stimulation of these parts; sexual intercourse.

In some cases, used to refer to a woman who is wearing "skimpy", sexy or tasteless clothing.

Less commonly, used as a derogatory term by one female for another during periods of conflict.

Synonyms: whore, tramp. Derivations: slutty (adj.), sluttier/sluttiest (superlatives). Related Adjectives: easy; immoral; loose; cheap.

Slut is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement (slut shaming). It originally meant "a dirty, slovenly woman", and is rarely used to refer to men, generally requiring clarification by use of the terms male slut or man whore.

The first recorded use of the word was in Geoffrey Chaucer's The Canterbury Tales. There have been attempts to reclaim the word for girls and women, and some individuals embrace the title as a source of pride.

A chiefly British variant of slut is slag, and a primarily North American one is skank; both also imply low social class.

SNOWBALL

Where a woman takes a cum load in her mouth, and then spits it back out into another person's mouth, usually another woman. 

The Snowball has been perfected to include which woman can have the longer strand of semen between the 2 women.

SNOWBALL FIGHT

When two or more women pass cum back and forth with their mouths it is referred to as a “Snowball Fight”

The act of spitting seaman back and forth from mouth, usually done after a bukkake or foursome.

SOCIAL

A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.(see Greet n Meet)

SOCIAL SWING CLUB

A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of onpremise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.  Some Swing Clubs or House Parties allow single males or females depending on the promotion of the event or like a special night or event.

SOFTCORE PORN

Softcore pornography that does not contain ejaculation sequences, full open view of vaginas and or erect penises is produced both to respond to a demand by some consumers for less-explicit pornographic material and to comply with government regulations or cable company rules that may disallow depictions of ejaculation. Cum shots typically do not appear in "girl-girl" scenes (female ejaculation scenes exist, but are relatively rare and are considered “squirting”); orgasm is instead implied by utterances, cinematic conventions, or body movement.

Often there are 2 versions of the movie made. One for Soft Porn i.e. “Cinemax” and the other with all the complete sexual acts shown for DVD or theater release.

SOFT SERVE

An act where a woman receives a load of cum inside her pussy (“creampie) from a man or several men and then the woman straddles another person’s face, usually a woman, and then she pushes the semen out of her pussy into the waiting mouth of the person.

In some cases the person then passes the deposited cum to another person’s mouth (“snowball”), usually a woman or the original woman who deposited the cum. If this passing back and forth continues then it becomes a “snowball fight”

(see “Snowball” / “Snowball Fight” / “Creampie”)

In some more kinky situations a “Soft Serve” can also stand for when someone straddles over another person’s waiting mouth and the person then defecates into the other person’s mouth but, for this to be considered “Soft Serve” the poop has to be soft.  This also works for a person pooping into a container (refer to “two girls in a cup” legend) or on a glass table while another person lays underneath to watch the action.

SOFT SWINGING or SOFT SWAPPING

1.) Swapping up to, but not including intercourse.

2.) A social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed.

(see Hard Swinging).

SPORT SWINGER

Couples and singles who are strictly interested in sexas frequently and with as many partners as possible. They are not necessarily interested in friendships or sharing nonswing activities with the people they meet. This type is usually the exception to the rulemost prefer a "friends first" relationship.

SQUIRTER

A female who is able to ejaculate fluid from her vagina.

What one might find even more surprising is for many years and still today, there are woman who never knew, a female ejaculation was possible. Some experts say that 10 to 40% of women are capable of achieving some noticeable form of a female ejaculatory orgasm. Although the size of this type of orgasm may vary from a teaspoon to a quart, it usually is not more than a cup.

So is it urine or is it another fluid? The few studies done, have not really had consistent finding in the analysis of the fluid. One problem seems to be that the fluid varies from woman to woman and many contain traces of urine. In addition to the studies finding traces of urine they also find a fluid similar in composition to that of prostatic fluids. The fluid produced by the male's prostate gland.

All of this may simply have something to do with our evolution and development . The fact is that for the first eight weeks of development we are all one or both sexes one might say, depending on ones point of view. The same tissue that in the male becomes the prostate, in the female becomes the pariurethral gland which is believed to be the gland most responsible for the fluid excreted.

Studies continue to find interesting facts on female orgasm. One encouraging fact is that a woman tends to develop or grow into this stronger orgasm as she matures.  Giving credence to that old saying , "women are like wine they get better with age".

While there are woman who have had this type of orgasm all their lives many woman as they approach their later years develop the ability. Either way none of the above really matters except on an intellectual level. The fact is, if a woman is capable of this type of orgasm, and it brings her greater pleasure, she should be made to feel comfortable with having it.  The debate on whether it is urine or some fluid of unknown origin, and composition becomes irrelevant when a woman's pleasure is involved.

There are still men to this day that think seeing a woman on a video squirting is fake.  She either was peeing or she had water squirted up in her and then she released it for the camera.  Well while some movies may do that to simulate it, the fact is that women do squirt.

Most women can achieve gushing (squirting) by stimulating the G-Spot. (see G-Spot)

S.T.D. or STD

Sexually transmitted disease.

STR

(see Straight)

STR8

or Str8

(see Straight)

STRAIGHT

1.  A Swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity;

2.  Nonswinger

3. Vanilla

(see Vanilla)

SWAPPING

Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.

(see Swingers / Open Relationship / Open Marriage, Adult Lifestyle)

SWING MAGAZINE

A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.

SWINGER

ˈswiNGər/

noun

  • Informal, a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.
  •     "one of the oldest swingers in town"
  • Informal,  a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
  •     "a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping"

A person or couple who engages in sexual activity with persons other than their spouse, with the full knowledge and consent of their spouse.

SWINGING

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging is a form of open marriage. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality, quantity, and frequency of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship.

Some people who think that want to be swingers can test these waters in various ways. One way is where the couple has their mate (usually the woman) become blindfolded at which point another person or persons enter the room and pleasure the woman.  Often these are ways of introducing another woman or male to the relationship in a controlled environment to test the waters to see if the couple is ready for taking the next step of their sexual relationship. This can turn out to be awesome or a disaster depending on both parties.  The man may not be ready to hear his wife getting off to another man. The woman may be turned off by having another woman touching her or a strange man touching her. Communication is paramount.

The phenomenon of swinging, or at least its wider discussion and practice, is regarded by some as arising from the freer attitudes to sexual activity after the sexual revolution of the 1960s, the invention and availability of the contraceptive pill, and the emergence of treatments for many of the sexually transmitted diseases that were known at that time. The adoption of safe sex practices became more common in the late 1980s.

The swinger community sometimes refers to itself as "the lifestyle", “adult lifestyle” or as "the alternative lifestyle". Depending on the culture and the context, the practice has also been called "wife lending", "wife sharing", a "community of women" or similar terms.

Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club (also known as a swinger club, not to be confused with a strip club). Different clubs offer varied facilities and atmospheres, and often hold "theme" nights. Some clubs restrict their members as couples only but, some allow single women or men in order to cater to some couples taste to only bring one person into their lives. Some clubs offer special nights or events for this to happen.

In the same sense some swinger couples find it hard to find a match for them. It is like the Goldilocks theory where the girl of the couple is perfect but the man isn’t to their liking or vise versa so the couple decides to end the frustration of finding the perfect couple by just finding a perfect man or woman for them.

Swinging is also known to take place in semi-public venues such as hotels, resorts, or cruise ships, or often in private homes. Furthermore, many websites that cater to swinging couples now exist, some boasting hundreds of thousands of members many in the area they live in. You would be surprised just how many swingers are in your community

Swinging itself is not a high-risk behavior, and swingers have lower rates of STIs than the general population. Swingers are relatively knowledgeable about STIs and their symptoms, and are more likely to seek prompt medical treatment if symptoms arise. To avoid unwanted pregnancy, the contraceptive pill is available along with having tubes tied or cut. Since the late 1980s, safe sex practices have become more common.

According to 2010 estimates by the Kinsey Institute "swinging is relatively uncommon in the United States". But, that study may be not as accurate as thought based on research of actual swinger web sites that show a staggering membership. There can be swingers found in small bedroom communities not to mention large cities. These web sites offer swingers to located one another much easier than in the old classifieds or magazines. The internet has apparently caused a boom in the swinger community. People looking for other swingers in their area are surprised that their local residents whom they would have never guessed is a swinger is in fact one of them.  The idea of a judge, lawyer or school teacher being found out is lost when the other person has just as much to loose. Now they just wink with a smile at one another in their day to day life.

Research on swinging has been conducted in the United States since the late 1960s. One 2000 study, based on an Internet questionnaire addressed to visitors of swinger-related sites, found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm.

60% said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become happier. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them. Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true. Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins. There was no significant difference between responses of men and women who completed the survey.

John Stossel produced an investigative news report into the swinging lifestyle. Stossel's report in 2005 cited Terry Gould's research, which concluded that "couples swing in order to not cheat on their partners". When Stossel asked swinging couples whether they worry their spouse will "find they like someone else better," one male replied, "People in the swinging community swing for a reason. They don't swing to go out and find a new wife;" a woman asserted, "It makes women more confident that they are the ones in charge." Stossel interviewed 12 marriage counselors. According to Stossel, "not one of them said don't do it," though some said "getting sexual thrills outside of marriage can threaten a marriage". Nevertheless, swingers whom Stossel interviewed claimed "their marriages are stronger because they don't have affairs and they don't lie to each other."

According to economic studies on swinging, the information and communications technology revolution, together with improvements in medicine, has been effective in reducing some of the costs of swinging and hence in increasing the number of swingers.

Many couples enter swinging while in secure relationships, providing added motivation to avoid excessive health risks. Though some sexual affairs outside relationships may be in "the heat of the moment" without regard to consequences, swingers maintain that sex among swingers is often more frank and deliberative and therefore more honest than unfaithful.

Many swinging clubs in the US and UK do not have alcohol licenses and have a "bring your own beverage" (BYOB) policy. Also, it is not uncommon for experienced swingers to remain sober to preclude any sexual performance problems. This counter-argument suggests that such swingers take a safer approach to sexual health than comparable non-monogamous singles (who ostensibly have impaired judgment from becoming inebriated).

Condoms are often highly encouraged and readily available at many swinging clubs and parties. In addition, many swingers rely on frequent STI testing to ensure their safety. A small portion focus on massage and other activities unlikely to transmit STIs; However, most participants acknowledge they are accepting the same risks that any person does who is sexually active outside of a strictly monogamous relationship.

Although there is a risk of pregnancy, they are the same as monogamous sex and can be minimized. Solutions include a tubal ligation (female sterilization), vasectomy (male sterilization), or having a group entirely made of menopausal women. Other solutions include using condoms or the pill. Proper use of a condom with an effective birth control method minimizes the risk of pregnancy and transmission of STIs.

Some believe sexual attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple. Some swingers cite divorce data in the US, claiming the lack of quality of sex and spousal infidelity are significant factors in divorce. One study showed 37% of husbands and 29% of wives admit at least one extramarital affair (Reinisch, 1990), and divorce rates for first marriages approached 60%.

It may not be possible to trace a precise history of swinging since the modern concept is so closely related to basic human sexuality and relationships, and they vary significantly across time and cultures. The modern concept of "swinging" is a recent Western phenomenon with no counterpart or meaning in many other cultures and civilizations in history in which monogamous relationships was the norm or which had religious or social prohibitions against such sexual practices.

SWINGING LIFESTYLE

Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.(see adult lifestyle)

SWINGING MARRIAGE

Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.

SUBMISSIVE

(see Passive)

TABOO

A social or religious custom prohibiting or forbidding discussion of a particular practice or forbidding association with a particular person, place, or thing.

Something that is viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore is rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more than ever taboo. And while most have to do with sex, some taboos have to do with food, and others beliefs, and all of them will bring a conversation to a dead stop if you bring them up because these are all things most people do not what to talk about.

Examples: A white woman having sex with a black man is still in some places a taboo. Unprotected sex with a stranger is thought of in these times as a taboo.  Sex with an animal is still considered a taboo in most countries. Sex between family members (incest) is also considered taboo in most countries.

TAN

"Tested Antibody Negative" for HIV (AIDS)

T GIRL

T Girl also known as Transgender

Both transsexual and transgender women may experience gender dysphoria, distress brought upon by the discrepancy between their gender identity and the sex that was assigned to them at birth (and the associated gender role or primary and secondary sex characteristics).

Both transsexual and transgender women may transition, though only transsexual women would medically transition. A major component of medical transition for trans women is estrogen hormone replacement therapy, which causes the development of female secondary sex characteristics (breasts, redistribution of body fat, higher waist–hip ratio, etc.). This, along with sex reassignment surgery can bring immense relief, and in most cases, rids the person of gender dysphoria.

In the same manner, a trans man is someone who was assigned female at birth, but whose gender identity is that of a man.

In the adult entertainment world a “T-Girl” is portrayed as a young man who has had some form of medical procedure done where they have breast but, still have a penis. These T Girls often perform sex with another male or female. The sex with a male often includes anal sex with the T-Girl.  Some T-Girls still can ejaculate.

THREESOME

Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a sexual encounter. The French term  "menage a' trois" has made this act popular in the 70’s.

TICKET

A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. (see single swinger)

TOP BOTTOM SWITCH

The terms top, bottom and versatile (or switch) are used to describe roles for the duration of a sometimes sexual act, or may be used more broadly as a psychological, social, and sexual identity, as well as indicating one's usual preference. The terms top, bottom and switch are also used in BDSM, with slightly different meanings. In both contexts, the terms top and bottom refer to dominant or submissive, or active and passive roles, not to who is physically on top in a particular sexual act.

There is considerable controversy about the prevalence of tops and bottoms among male/female and straight/gay populations.

Beginning in the 1970s, in some American contexts, people would identify their interests by wearing a set of keys on the side of their belt or a color-coded handkerchief in their rear pockets. This practice, called flagging, began in the gay male subculture.

TOP

Main article: Top (BDSM)

In BDSM, top means:

A dominant partner in BDSM play (such as flogging, binding, being master, humiliating, and sexual play.)

A partner who applies stimulation to another, and who may or may not be dominant.

Topping from the bottom is a related BDSM term, meaning a person simultaneously adopts the role of bottom and dom.

A service top is a person who applies sensation or control to a bottom, but does so at the bottom's explicit instruction.

BOTTOM

Main article: Bottom (BDSM)

In BDSM, bottom means:

A submissive partner in sexual play (such as in being flogged, tied, humiliated, or made to serve.)

A partner who receives stimulation from another, and who may or may not be submissive.

A partner who enjoys submission on a temporary, limited basis.

A bottom in BDSM does not have to be the receptive partner; for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her.

SWITCH

Main article: Switch (BDSM)

A switch is someone who participates in BDSM activities sometimes as a top and other times as a bottom or (in the case of dominance and submission) sometimes as a dominant and other times as a submissive. This is sometimes referred to as being versatile.

TAINT

Slang word created to describe the area between a woman’s vagina and her asshole. It also applies to a man.

Used in a sentence:  “It taint my asshole or my pussy but, I love having you lick it.”

TOYS

Sexual aids

(see Dildo, Sexual Aid, Vibrator)

TRANNY

Tranny (or trannie) is a derogatory and offensive slang term for a transgender, transsexual, transvestite, or cross-dressing person. During the early 2010s, there was confusion and debate over whether the term was a pejorative, or was still considered acceptable, or even a reappropriated term of unity and pride. By 2017, the word was banned by several major media stylebooks and considered hate speech by Facebook.

TRAVEL

(see Can Travel)

TRIAD

Three people in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement.

UNICORN

If you’re a bi female or know anyone who plays for both teams, they’ve definitely  complained about the idea of a unicorn before. Aside from being the mythical creature you asked for on your 9th birthday, unicorns are the nickname for a chick who joins a couple for a threesome. Tragically for the swingers of the world, unicorns are way, way less common than porn would have you think. Which is precisely why they’re called “unicorns” and not “people in the bread aisle of your local grocery store.”

UPSKIRT

Upskirt is the practice of making unauthorized photographs under a woman's skirt, capturing an image of her crotch area, underwear and sometimes genitalia. The term "upskirt" can also refer to a photograph, video, or illustration which incorporates an upskirt image. The term is also sometimes used to refer generically to any voyeur photography that is, catching an image of somebody unaware in a private moment.

The practice is regarded as a form of sexual fetishism or voyeurism and is similar in nature to down-blouse. The ethical and legal issue relating to upskirt and downblouse photography is one of a reasonable expectation of privacy, even in a public place.

The limits the voyeur will go to are unlimited and range to out and out catching the shot openly to extreme discreetness.

Social attitudes

The concept and interest in upskirt is not new, though the term is more recent. For example, looking up a woman's skirt was depicted in the 1767 painting The Swing by Jean-Honoré Fragonard. In "polite society", looking up a lady's skirt was regarded as impolite or rude. In less polite society, looking up a lady's skirt or her lifting up the skirt or otherwise exposing her underwear was regarded as bawdy, as in the case of cabaret dances such as the can-can or in the case of entertainment involving the raising of a dancer's dress by her spinning rapidly. By the polite society, such behaviour was widely judged as indecent.

Upskirt or Pin up girls were popular during the World War II where this kind of art was placed on the noses of airplanes

The sudden popularity in the 1960s of the miniskirt brought the concept out onto the streets, and was viewed by many as mass exhibitionism. One commentator in the 1960s said, "In European countries ... they ban mini-skirts in the streets and say they're an invitation to rape...."

Many women, on the other hand, viewed the new style as rebellion against previous clothing styles and as women's liberation of their own bodies. For the first time many women felt comfortable exposing their thighs, whether on the beach in a swimsuit or in street wear, and were even relaxed when in some situations their underwear would be visible.

Some upskirt and downblouse images originate as innocent fun images which are made with the knowledge and lack of objection of the females affected. However, some of these images can finish up being more widely distributed or being posted onto the Internet without the knowledge and consent of the subject, for example following a relationship breakup.

Some upskirt and downblouse photos and videos are made specifically to upload onto the Internet, where many viewers seek such images taken surreptitiously (and presumably without the subject's consent). Such photographs are common on fetish and pornographic websites, as well as on video sharing sites such as YouTube

Attitudes hardened with the very widespread availability and use of digital photographic and video technology, most recently camera phones. Such technology was also being used to record upskirt and downblouse images for uploading onto the internet. Specialist websites came into existence where people could share such images, and terms such as "upskirt", "downblouse" and "nipple dress" (i.e., when an erect nipple is evident through the material of a woman's dress) came into use. Of particular concern were images of minors and of people who could be identified. Celebrities were popular victims of such efforts. Issues of privacy and reputation began to be raised.

The creation and viewing of this type of image came increasingly to be described as forms of voyeurism and pornography. This was not that most of such images were sexual in nature, with most of them being quite innocent by themselves, but because of their association with the nature of the website on which they were posted and because of the size of the collections.

Upskirt photos can be made in a variety of situations, such as when a woman is ascending stairs or getting out of a car or just sitting on a park bench; and downblouse photos can similarly be made in many innocent situations. Upskirt photos are usually taken by a concealed camera attached on the shoe or carried within a bag so it is very hard for a woman to notice that she is being photographed in this manner. There are many methods and types of making upskirt photos and it is very rare for a woman to notice it before actually seeing herself on some of the voyeur websites that display such photographs. (see Voyeur)

UTOPIAN SWINGER

A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.

VAGINOPLASTY

Vaginoplasty is any surgical procedure that results in the construction or reconstruction of the vagina. It is a type of genitoplasty. Pelvic organ prolapse is often treated with one or more surgeries to repair the vagina. Sometimes a vaginoplasty is needed following the treatment or removal of malignant growths or abscesses in order to restore a normal vaginal structure and function. Surgery to the vagina is done to correct congenital defects to the vagina, urethra and rectum. It will correct protrusion of the urinary bladder into the vagina (cystocele) and protrusion of the rectum (rectocele) into the vagina. Often, a vaginoplasty is performed to repair the vagina and its attached structures due to trauma or injury.

Congenital disorders such as adrenal hyperplasia can affect the structure and function of the vagina and sometimes the vagina is absent; these can be reconstructed or formed, using a vaginoplasty. Other candidates for the surgery include babies born with a microphallus, people with Müllerian agenesis resulting in vaginal hypoplasia, transgender or transsexual women, and women who have had a vaginectomy after malignancy or trauma. Vaginoplasty can reduce the size of the entrance of the vagina or alter the appearance of the vulva.(see Labiaplasty)

VANILLA

Conventional sex, or vanilla sex, is sexual behavior that is within the range of normality for a culture or subculture, and typically involves sex which does not include elements of BDSM, kink, fetishism, experimental sex, exhibitionism, or more than one sexual partner during sex. When looking at conventional sex with disdain, it may be described as unadventurous or dull.

The term vanilla in "vanilla sex" derives from the use of vanilla extract as the basic flavoring for ice cream, and by extension, meaning plain or conventional.

In relationships where only one partner enjoys less conventional forms of sexual expression, the partner who does not enjoy such activities as much as the other is often referred to as the vanilla partner. As such, it is easy for them to be erroneously branded unadventurous and dull in sexual matters.

Through exploration with their partner, it may be possible for a more vanilla-minded person to discover new facets of their sexuality. As with any sexually active person, they may find their preferences on the commonly termed "vanilla-kink spectrum" are sufficient for their full satisfaction.

VERSATILE

Versatile:

(See Bisexual, AC/DC)

VOYEURISM /VOYEUR

A Voyeur is a person who enjoys watching sexual activity

The practice of gaining sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.

Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature.

The term comes from the French voir which means "to see". A male voyeur is commonly labeled as "Peeping Tom" or a "Jags", a term which originates from the Lady Godiva legend. However, that term is usually applied to a male who observes somebody secretly and, generally, not in a public place.

Studies have shown that while males are more prown to being a voyeur, there are women who also enjoy watching someone in a provocative way knowing they are not seen.

In the same sense the party being watched actually knows they are being watched and they themselves are turned on by being watched.  They even go as far as setting the situation up so they can be seen in a sexual situation either undressing or engaging in masturbation or sex with someone else.

They may fantasies that the person watching them is masturbating or wanting to be with them sexually.  They themselves may fantasies of that person coming into their room and taking them sexually although they would not actually want it to happen.

Some exhibitionist look for situations where they may be seen in a sexually provocative situation.  They have a linked relationship with each other being the exhibitionist and the voyeur. (see exhibitionist)

VIBRATOR

Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators can now move in all directions and mimic the actions of a real penis.  Vibrators can be used by both men and women for selfstimulation and to sexually please another.

Modern Vibrators now can be worked in relationship with your IPOD thru Bluetooth technology. A person may not get off to their favorite tune.

Vibrators are so advanced now with Bluetooth technology that they are wireless which has made wearing vibrating panties in public even more exciting especially when someone else has the control.

VOLUPTUOUS

Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large wellformed breasts; may also refer to full but, well formed hips or lips.

WAX PLAY

Wax play is a form of temperature play practiced in a BDSM context. The idea of wax play is to introduce a slight burning sensation to the skin.

This is considered a moderately advanced form of play. If done wrong, wax play can cause burns severe enough to require medical attention.

Common candle types:

    Paraffin Candles which typically melt at around 57 °C (135 °F).

    Beeswax Candles which commonly melt at around 63 °C (145 °F).

    Soy Candles which commonly melt at around 54 °C (130 °F).

Candle additives such as dye, oils, and scents may increase the melting point.

The melting point of wax can be lowered by adding mineral oil.

Safe words can also be a part of this sexual fetish as well as the person having the wax poured on them uses a blindfold.

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